A guy im dating is also dating this other girl, who i'm actually acquainted with. she's really nice, but i dont want to share my man. am I being selfish?
2007-06-02 06:12:10 · 17 answers · asked by Emily C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no way. tell him that he's being poly-girlfriend-ist and he needs to pick one of you. he can date the other one later. dating both of you is selfish on his part, and inconsiderate of both your and the other girl's feelings.
2007-06-02 06:21:56 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with people just dating? I mean if everyone is honest about it, like, hey I'm gonna hang out with you, go to a movie, and hang out with her next week. Just remember it goes both ways...you get to see other guys too! The more people you meet, the more selective you can be when you choose "the one". I wouldn't recommend turning that kind of relationship into an intimate one though...not with all the STDs around today!
2007-06-02 13:18:32 · answer #2 · answered by TxsWitchWAB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a personal choice, that's all that makes it right or wrong.
If you don't want him to see someone else then tell him that.
Maybe to him and her it's not a big deal to date more than one person. Some people can't handle not being the only girlfriend in a guys life. other people appreciate the fact that him having another girlfriend means that every other weekend, she has the week off to do whatever she wants without a male in-tow.
2007-06-02 13:39:29 · answer #3 · answered by Odd Little Animal 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow I can't believe he's dating another girl and you're okay with that. If he doesn't care about you enough to be with only you then you need to get rid of him!!! Actually the fact that he would even have 2 girl friends is sick and even if he does choose you, he'll probably cheat on you later. Dump him!
2007-06-02 13:17:19 · answer #4 · answered by shootingstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are dating then that's the point of dating. To see what best fits you. If he liked you then he will choose you in the end over her
BUT!!
If you are official and are boyfriend and girlfriend then LEAVE HIM. He is basically cheating.
2007-06-02 13:16:37 · answer #5 · answered by antmac14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is what dating is...going out with several people and getting to know them,it's how it works...he isn't "your" man yet...if you want things to become more serious with him and have him get into a relationship and stop dating then you need to talk to him about it,he may not be ready for that.
2007-06-02 13:16:55 · answer #6 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No your not being selfish, You need to let him know that dating both of you is bullshit, and you need to tell him to choose one of you guys. and if he doesnt then leave him b/c he doesnt care enough about you anyways. I hope i helped ya...
2007-06-02 13:21:51 · answer #7 · answered by Tiffany B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um are you serious? Is this a serious or very casual relationship? You obviously want to be serious with him so tell him that if he can't be with only you, then you'll leave. You won't be happy in this kind of a relationship for long.
2007-06-02 13:16:04 · answer #8 · answered by Chivalrous Chubbu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not being selfish. That's stupid. Don't go out with a guy that is going out with another girl. That's just plain stupid.
2007-06-02 13:15:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you are not being selfish give him and altimadem it's me or her! thats kind of rude to do that to both of ya'll.
2007-06-02 13:15:54 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋