who has problems with their partners?????

Question

well i have a baby gurl i used to live with my babys father but we had been having alot of problems like he is a really jealous person he gets mad at evey little thing we had been together for about 3 years but living togheter only about 10 months besides that he older than me like 4 years older he saids that he is going to change and that because he loves me but i dont believe him what should i do? and I LOVE HIM!!

Answer 1

It's OK to love somebody but not like them. That's the way I feel about my ex-husband. I wouldn't want to hear that harm came to him, but I also knew that I didn't like him anymore because of abuse. There's that line to figure out for yourself.

Answer 2

No one is ever going to be perfect. You need to decide for yourself whether these issues can be lived with or worked on. If you really want him to work on these things that bother you, the two of you need to sit down and really talk about it. Don't just tell him what's bothering you. Work together to figure out a strategy for chaning his behavior. And always be willing to listen to any problems he may have and to work on them as well.

Answer 3

Yes he loves you, of course he does.You guys have a past together. But if he is still in love with you then he wouldn't treat you and his daughter this way. If you feel that he is hurting this relationship in anyway mentally or physically you have to leave him because it is not healthy for you and your daughter.

Answer 4

you need to think about your child first. then about you and then your relationship. you need to stay some where else and the both of you need to go to counseling. people don't change on there own, they need held. the only reason he is saying that is because he dos'ent want you to leave. you daugter is going to look up to you and you need to be able to stand up for what you want.