how do i know if he is the right gut for me please dont say youll just know what type of signs would he give all help appriciated
2007-06-02 05:43:27 · 14 answers · asked by likkle 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry about the spelling mistakes
2007-06-02 05:44:08 · update #1
What i think the way u will know. Is u think about him all the time. You still get butterflies every time u see him no matter if u seen him a million times. You get goose bumps every time he touches u. You get all giggly when he looks at you. You feel safe when u are laying in his arms. And with him is the only place u would ever want to be. That's how u know.
2007-06-02 05:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by butterflieyes99 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you are out together, are you proud to be seen with him, or do you feel a little awkward or embarrassed?
Can you talk for hours together, or sit quietly without the need to say anything?
When you are by yourself, do you find yourself thinking - he would enjoy that - I want to tell him about what I saw, or what I thought.
Does he give you presents that are special - that show he understands you - rather than the standard things every guy gives every girl?
Do he call you or do you always call him?
Those are some things to look at. Can you imagine spending the rest of your life with him - when you get fat and he gets fat? Can you imgine loving him when he is sick and hawking great green slime and complaining all the time?
There are lots more but if you've come up with the right answers so far you're way ahead of the game
2007-06-02 05:47:56 · answer #2 · answered by Uncle John 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He won't know the smoothest thing to say. he might call too often and then not enough. he might say bold and even slightly scary things from time to time. these are all signs that he is taken by you and he doesn't quite now what to do, which is beautiful.
If you think about him all the time, cry when things aren't going well between you, if you are constantly comparing other guys to him, if you ever imagine the future with him, you might be taken by him.
If both of the above are on, then he might be the right guy for you.
2007-06-02 05:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by Casey S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're madly in love, you're so blind you just don't care if he is right or wrong, left or right. But if you are serious about this guy, look for the qualities you want in a guy. You may not get 100% but 70% is good enough for you. Goodluck.
2007-06-02 05:48:49 · answer #4 · answered by greentea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but there just isn't an answer for you, you just know. It's a feeling deep down. Problem with all emotions, you just are not sure if you really do feel them or not.
2007-06-02 05:46:27 · answer #5 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't know... for get the signs and the "you'll know by the kiss" NO...!! You don't know if he's the ONE 4 U... that's y u take chances w/your heart... get it broken a few Painful times learn to love- be honest, let him gain your trust... and seriously when he has passed the test w/your heart.. "THAT'S WHEN U KNOW IF HE'S THE ONE 4 U R NOT!"
2007-06-02 06:00:50 · answer #6 · answered by Chyna Blaque 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are the only one who can tell wethere he is the right one for you.we can't determine that for you.so sorry can't help you on that one dear.actually if you get along well why bother analizing things just have fun.that's how relationship gets ruined we analize to much.
2007-06-02 05:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by cris jc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously think about his faults.. is it something you could live/deal with for the rest of your life? talk to the people around you that care for you.. seriously take into account their concerns. they can see things that you don't.. and always pray about it. God will let you know if he is the right one.
2007-06-02 05:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by JJK789 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right gut will just be there, waiting for you.....
2007-06-02 05:45:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You won't unless you realize it. No one can "tell" when they first meet their right person. It's just... how you feel.
2007-06-02 05:45:56 · answer #10 · answered by Adelphie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋