my gf is troubling me alot ..what should i do???

Question

this is a boy of only 16..
i was been proposed by a cute girl..n i have accepted since she loves me very much...n also she luks pretty cool n cute!!...
well!..this affair went around for 1month!..
we both spent a long duration in colleges,,bunking...lots of kisses etc.....n recently.n now too.....she has been asking me for having sex!>..
im afraid a lot about it..
im getting scared of this matter!...
what should i do??
should i proceed to compramize with her or should i reject!>.
i mean that is it necessary in this age???

Answer 1

if you r 16 i dont think so.......wait till ur a little older like 20 or 19

Answer 2

There are women whose sole blind ambition at the monent is to have a baby. This can be due to an unsatisfying life, sexual urges (theirs are different than ours), or any number of other reasons that have nothing to do with "love" or, for that matter, rational thought. If she gets pregnant, you're on the hook financially for longer than you've been alive so far. Since relationships like this usually don't last, you'll have to admit to every girlfriend you have until you're 35 that you're paying child support. Then you'll have to tell them that you have herpes, too.

That sounds like the kind of woman that's after you. So if at 16 you're scared, that sounds pretty smart to me. Others might call it intuition.

Answer 3

Think of your values. If you are worried or unsure about it, I would suggest not compromising.
If you two broke up at some point (very possible) would you want to have compromised with her on this subject at this point. In other words, would you be happy with your decision later?
Wait till you are ready; if she respects you as a person, she will respect your decision.
There are always two people in a relationship, and both sides should be equally represented and respected.
Good luck

Answer 4

No it is NOT necessary at your age to have sex!I don't think you should engage yourself in anything that makes you uncomfortable.If she loves you ( although I just think at you're age it's just a crush).You don't sound ready.You're simply experiencing peer pressure. We all go through it ( I'm 17).Other kids say just because you haven't done it you're not 'cool'. It's not true. I think you should wait. Someday when you're older you'll find someone you really love.Then if you're ready you'll do it.

Answer 5

If you are 16 and in college, you should be able to write a properly structured sentence. It sounds to me like you would not be able to support a child if one should be conceived of your union. Let her go, she's trouble... take an English class.

Answer 6

If you do not feel good about it stand up for your self and say,"No".

You could tell her that you don't think that she is ready.

Only at one month is too early. When I was your age it was maybe after one year of "going together".

Answer 7

Erm... ... If she's really stuck up, she'll most likely get angry if you say no and leave you. Keep your mind off the age, and just choose what you want. I would say a maybe, seeing as you're 16, but if you think you're capable of it, say yes.

Answer 8

I think that 16 is too young. But, if you love her she will be able to wait until you are ready.

Answer 9

If u are not ready , dont do it. Let her know how u felt about having sex and beside u are only 16.

Answer 10

DONT do anything you are not ready for! if she truely cares for you, she will accept it. never ever put your moral standards to the back burner.
if she doesnt agree and respect your opinion on the matter, let her go.
you will find someone who you can be happy with and someone who respects you and has the sam moral standards.