If you were spanked as a child, not abused, but spanked, are you now turned on by it?

Question

Do you think this is a direct result of your childhood spanking experiences?
Or is this just another shock tactic people use to try and get parents to stop spanking.

I am only asking due to what I've read on here, I apologies if I offended anyone due to the nature of the question.

Thanks everyone so far for the GREAT feedback. AND NO this question has NOTHING to do with me. Just read an answer someone gave, and like everyone else, CAN'T imagine being turned on by it.

Answer 1

I agree - there is no correlation between "fetish" spankers and childhood spanking (many "fetish" spankers were never spanked as children (there MIGHT even be some argument that those who weren't spanked as children came to have an unatural curiosity about it - what was it like? - but that also is just speculation on my part).
First of all "experts" told us that spanking caused aggression - and we end up with the most violent yet least spanked generation ever,then that it harmed intelligence and learning - and we have children leaving school hardly able to read and write.
This is just their latest ploy - I was spanked as a girl when and if necessary (and that was quite often but that was MY fault!) but being spanked as an adult would be the LAST thing to "turn me on" - but I won't be telling you on here what the first,second and third ...etc. are!
Best wishes,
Joan

Answer 2

I was spanked, and abused, as a child, but find nothing erotic by receiving a spanking now that I'm an adult.

However, I *DO* find it erotic to spank a lovely young lady, but that is a kink that stirred in me before I was ever even spanked. I'm not sure where it came from, but I can remember fantasizing about the neighborhood girls being spanked by their parents, and the fantasies always included them being naked for some reason. This was when I was like ten....

Answer 3

A spanking on the butt would properly be acceptalbe and not abuse IF it does no longer harm nor injure and no count if it is deserved and effectual AND if the confirm utilising it is thoroughly sober and has heavily defined to the youngster the WHY of a spanking. Any "spanking" or "corporal punishment" would be cosnideredd "ABUSE" in many jurisdictions. And a "thorough beating from head to toe" would be consideed via many or maximum if no longer all good mum and dad to be ABUSE ... excess of the main appropriate, which you would be able to talk ... and that does no longer incorporate "and lower back lower back". while you're for genuine, GET help.

Answer 4

Yes, i was spanked a lot as a child. Don't know whether it has anything to do with me now, but yes, i now yearn for spankings, paddlings, and strappings. They might turn me on, or might hurt a lot, but i yearn for the paddling. The idea of it is a turn on. A medium spanking is a turn on. The buttocks is kind of a nerve center, and an erogenous zone, and close to more erotic erogenous zones.

Also, endorphins come as a result of spankings, and that is also pleasurable and a turn on. And feeling the sting afterward, for several days, and knowing that someone special did it is a turn on. And, it is a way to give control and power to another person. Spank me long and hard!

Answer 5

The reason people get aroused by any childhood memory is the correlation their brain makes between that experience and their first sexual feelings (why most pedophiles are themselves victims of child sexual abuse) - so when they experience that same sensation they are remembering how it felt the first time they were aroused. In response to your question, when I was little yes I was spanked (as were most kids of the late 70's/early 80's) but I do not associate this with sexual pleasure - I've been spanked once in my adulthood in a sexual manner, and it did nothing for me.

Answer 6

For those people who are into the S&M thing, do you think they are 'aware' of what causes their behavior?

I doubt anyone here will tell you that while with their spouses in bed, they fantasize about having been spanked as a child. I see the point you're getting at, but it just doesn't work that way.

Besides, I believe in the question you are referring to they were quoting research, not their personal opinion.

Answer 7

Doesn't do anything for me as an adult, and I was spanked plenty as a kid. I knew why I was getting spanked and I knew I deserved it -- I was trying to get over and got caught. I think that's just another play by people who don't want to parent -- they want to be friends with their kid teach them losing is sufficient as long as you maybe kind of tried and crying at work is acceptable. It's a continuation of the non-parenting, blame someone else for my kids problems phenomena

Answer 8

interesting question....i was spanked as a kid and it hurt back then and i would cry. but when my hubby spanks me now, it's definitely a turn on. not a hard spankin'....just enough to feel good. :) now i'm not sure if both relate coz i would hate to think my parents have something to do with my naughtiness now :(

Answer 9

I turned out fine. My mom never really spanked me, she was a martial arts expert she knew every pressure point on the human body. She never hit she poked me on a pressure point, got my attention instantly. My great-aunt, she had a switch made from old telephone cords, and she used to tear my legs up. I still love her.

Answer 10

Umm not at all i was spanked as a child for basically all bad behaviour it really hurt and the really bad behaviour warrented the heel of a slipper you rember what you did to deserve it so you dont do it again but some people sound insane no offence to any one.

my 3 girls get spanked to.