i'm friends w/ this girl, who use to know i had a crush on her. i really love her now, but she has a bf, who isn't very supportive of her so she comes to me with her emotional issues. i asked her for advice about this girl i found out likes me. the girl i like said
"go for it, just make sure u aren't involved with anyone else first. It's amazing how much someone can like another person but not be willing to make the move. It's amazing how many people you might be able to get with who you won't get with because you think you have no chance. But actually you do have a chance. Take those chances :)" she told me to add something extreme to my character.
then i said what if u like a person who is inv. with someone else, she said "so what if they are in a relationship? maybe they aren't happy. u should at least tell her." later i asked her if she was happy in her relationship and she said "i don't know."
does she know that i am talking about her? what should i do?
2007-06-02 03:21:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She knows what you're talking about.
I'd just give her a scenario, like, "So if you didn't have a boyfriend, would you go out with me?" Or practice a kiss on her or asking the other girl out or something and gauge her reaction. Then come back and tell us! : )
2007-06-02 03:25:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she knows ur talking about her , she just dosen't want to admit it right now b/c she's with someone . If i were u i would just tell her how i really feel about and get out . You really sound like the kind of guy any girl would be lucky to date , one that's supportative and that you can talk to about ur problems a lot of girls like that in guy . So i don't see why she wouldn't know that ur talking about her . So if i were you i would go ahead and just tell her . Good Luck !!!
2007-06-02 10:28:55 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For someone who's telling you to take a chance, etc...she sure seems to be beating around the bush. It does sound like she's trying to get you to make the move with her. But as to her motives? She may want to get involved with you, or she may just want to tick off her bf. Without knowing her, it's hard for me to know her true motives.
2007-06-02 10:27:44 · answer #3 · answered by justme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she doesn't have a clue, however that is not her fault but yours. True be told, she isn't into you as you want. Time to move on and find someone that will be. You are going to waste a lot of time and effort on someone that will never be there for you in that way. Kind of pathetic when you really think about it, however almost every guy does this at one time or another.
Really...move on.
2007-06-02 10:26:10 · answer #4 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, she knows. She wants you to 'make the first move'.
saying "I don't know" when asked about the relationship she's in, means she's not really happy but not ready to let it go unless something better comes along. She's wondering if it's you. So go for it, like she said, you never know unless you go for it.
2007-06-02 10:34:52 · answer #5 · answered by Squirrley Temple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get involved with her until she is out of the relationship she is already in. There's no use putting yourself up for heartbreak with a girl who isn't sure what she wants.
2007-06-02 10:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by Masha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should really think about your relationship w/ her b4 you make a move. cuz if she doesnt feel the same way about you your friendship could end. you should at least wait untill she isnt going out w/ some 1 anymore. but keep dropping hints that you like her.
2007-06-02 10:26:26 · answer #7 · answered by Kay Kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may or may not know. The only way to find out is to ask her. Tell her how you feel. You never know. What if she likes you? So just ask her. Good luck!
2007-06-02 10:26:24 · answer #8 · answered by ♫ Pearl Jam ♫ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probibly isn't happy with her current boyfriend so she said "i don't know" kuz she didn't wan't her boyfriend to find out (when i talk to guys i always say "i don't know" kuz i don't wan't to lye, but i don't want anybody to know the truth) you could be her "boy" friend, most gurls (@ my school) have one guy that they can go talk to kuz they don't want anyone to know her secrets, and she trusts you with her secrets(don't EVER tell anyone her secrets or she will go and find a new
'boy" friend to tell her secrets to! she doesn't talk to her friends kuz they are probibly blabber mouths!!!!!!!(sry bout the spelling)... you should wait till they break up then make your move!(please vote me best answer, i really need the 10 points!)
2007-06-02 10:39:54 · answer #9 · answered by italiapinkdog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok thats complicated BUT:
she likes you and wants you to tell her that you like her so try something simple like "would you like to go out sometime?"
2007-06-02 10:26:47 · answer #10 · answered by Lol's 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋