I'm 15 years old...I was just wondering what guys really look for in a girl... are they after sex (and tbh, that's not really a bad thing, I can use it to my advantage... ;-) but I was just wondering if they really are like that or if that's just a myth or stereotype??
Thanks
2007-06-02 03:03:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Different guys want different things
Some guys just want sex, some guys want a casual relationship, some guys are looking for wife material.
Try and decide what you want in a guy and look for a guy who wants the same thing from you
:)
2007-06-02 03:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's true. Guys of all ages are mainly after sex. They will say anything and do anything just to get laid. It's really sad.
That's why girls/women should not put out so soon in a relationship. If you give them sex after you've only known them for one month, then it's just too darn soon.
I think in any relationship, you should wait at least 6 months-1 year before having sex, that way you know the relationship is not just about sex, it's about love, commitment, respect and consideration.
Cheers
2007-06-02 10:09:57 · answer #2 · answered by Daft One 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never use sex to get a guy. Number one, that wears off. If you are interested in having a serious relationship with someone then, sex is not the way to do it. Guys think that women who use sex to their advantage do that with all guys. Don't be that girl. Good luck.
2007-06-02 10:07:08 · answer #3 · answered by Rogue 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No its not just sex.... Guys like a sexy, touchy paw make out best mate.
Often going for the lively, exciting fun playful girls as potientail girlfirends who would be lots of fun to be around
Hence popularity of say Avril Lavingne and characters like Tomb Raider Lara Croft, Buffy, Dark Angel Max (Jessica Alba), Surf babes, snowboard babes, break dancers.
They want someone cheeky, mating, playful, naughty, somone to make life fun who is cool him being touchy and paw paw all the time and cubddels and affection and sex stuff as well.
THEY LOVE FORWARD GIRLS as most dont have a clue who to pull or impress a girl they like and scared they will think he is a perve and stop being mates or just doing him a favour.
So a girl who makes first moves and openly flirty and likes skimpy clothes and beng touchy is cool
2007-06-02 11:12:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 15 you got a lot of growing up to do before you will know the answer to this question. Adults - not just men - like relationships which include sex as one aspect.
2007-06-02 10:06:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
First off, you are 15 years old. Please do not use sex to your advantage. Sex is very serious and so are the possible consequences.
Most men are looking for a good woman, not a sex toy.
2007-06-02 10:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by just a mom 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old the guy is. Sorry to say, but most younger guys are really just looking to get laid. (I'm not being sexist or degrading, but it's true). Not all of them are like that, though. Some just want to be with someone they can have fun with and who will be nice to them.
2007-06-02 10:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by Masha 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
initially a lot of guys around your age are interested in sex because they haven't had it yet and are curious. when you get older and sex is less of an unusual thing guys will have the option of dating a skank or a nice girl that isn't going to put out easy. their choice depends on their maturity level. when a guy is ready to settle down sex won't matter
2007-06-02 10:08:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
They are looking for a woman they can love, trust and respect. To be proud of when they are with them.
2007-06-02 10:39:54 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Becca that depends on the guy ! Good guys like honesty, humor and Jesus loving girls !
2007-06-02 10:11:01 · answer #10 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋