I know he likes me because he told some ppl and they told me. Sometimes he looks at me and rarely he talks to me but i never would have guessed he liked me. What should i do because i like him too but we
rarely see each other at school and no1 knows i like him.
2007-06-02 02:59:57 · 25 answers · asked by ♥Killing Loneliness♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We are around 13 yrs old (im almost fourteen) I don't know exactly how old he is but he's in my grade.
2007-06-02 03:20:53 · update #1
it's the ignore tactic. he ignores you, so you work harder to be with him. it's like the hard to get deal a lot of women do.
just ask him to go see a movie, and cuddle up. then, you got what ya want.
2007-06-02 03:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by Colorado Doug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's most likely he's not outgoing or confident enough to openly show interest in you. If you rarely see each other, he wouldn't have much that's obvious to talk about (like schoolwork, common friends, etc.), and that can make it difficult to get a conversation going for a shy person. Also, sometimes the fantasy you can build around some fairly distant figure is too attractive to want to risk having it destroyed by a real-life rejection.
I guess it's possible he's playing games, but playing hard-to-get with someone you see only rarely seems to me like a losing strategy. People who play that game rationally play it with people who seem to be interested in them.
If you're extroverted, you shouldn't have any trouble getting his hopes up by talking to him about some non-threatening subject (it would be a bad idea to immediately confront him with the reports of his interest). If that's too intimidating, then you'll have to be more devious. Maybe you can find out some common interest that would be a more natural conversation-starter.
2007-06-02 10:20:04 · answer #2 · answered by Houyhnhnm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why not tell people u like him....or better yet, tell him urself. then he'll know how u feel and the 2 of u can live happily ever after lol j/k but then u guyz could maybe go out and figure out a plan to see each other. sounds to me like hes shy cuz he told other ppl that he liked u knowing that they'd tell u. so why not juss confront him a/b it or ask him why he didnt tell u himself...or why he doesnt talk to u, find out some stuff a/b him then u can see if hes worth ur time and why he acts like u dont exist. Best of Luck! sunshine
2007-06-02 10:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you're both around 12 years old...which means he's normal...he likes you, but is nervous about letting you know in case you don't like him back. Since you like him, say hi to him when you see him. You don't have to wait for him to speak first. Start a conversation with him when his friends aren't around and he might be more at ease without the peer pressure. Good luck! :)
2007-06-02 10:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by tkwarrior_inct 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's scared that's why. The thing is he doesn't know that you like him too and wouldn't want to be rejected in case you don't feel the same way about him. Nothing will progress unless one of you makes the 1st move. Since you are the girl try dropping hints that you like him. Then see how he reacts.
2007-06-02 10:07:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be scared of rejection.
You could try writing him a note or email and tell him ya like him.
Or if you are able to, you could try giving him a call or getting him alone by himself somewhere and mention it to him. Also flirt with him a lot when you do see him. It might help him relax some. If you are real shy, you could always get one of your friends or his friends to do the work for you and ask them to tell him that you like him and see what he thinks of you and such. If it all comes back good, then try to see him more often or try the note thing.
I wish ya the best of luck!
2007-06-02 10:08:24 · answer #6 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i personally think that if he were THAT interested in you he would have made his move the minute he had the opportunity to do so especially since you 2 rarely see one an other.
2007-06-02 10:04:40 · answer #7 · answered by Fefe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband was so shy when i met him he could barely make eye contact with me. I almost gave up, until one day he called me and said "dont give up on me, i am just shy" i thought that was sweet, so i waited patiently. Now we are married 7 years and have 3 beautiful kids. It could be a simple as that. He could be so taken with you that he doesnt know how to approach you...or thinks everything he could say would sound dumb. It may be worth the wait! It was for me!!!
2007-06-02 10:16:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might think he is shy to comfort yourself..Even though that were true with him, how could he show respect and care verbally, physically in any way in the future? Love should be expressed for the other people to feel. And I think being really shy should be differenciated from ignoring you. I guess it is the only you that can tell which is true with him in his social life.
2007-06-02 10:11:42 · answer #9 · answered by Yogurt and Sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys use the old game of ignoring in order to get you attracted to them. It's all stems from their own insecurity. Don't fall for it. If a guy does not have the balls to call you or fess up to his feelings, then, what kind of guy is that? Who wants to be with someone that can't be honest with themself?
Good luck.
2007-06-02 10:04:19 · answer #10 · answered by Rogue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's so high school (no offence). The boys I heard that liked me usually did exactly the same things. Just wait it out and if he doesn't come around ask him staight.
2007-06-02 10:07:26 · answer #11 · answered by Lady G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋