my Dad died i keep seeing it in my dreams! please help!?

Question

my dad died in 2005. i went to juvy before he died. i had to say bye to him in handcuffs and shackles and that was the last time i saw him alive. he went hiking one day and he fell from a cliff as high as 132 ft. they need dental records to identifie him. when i found this out i was still in juvy. this happened out in Las Vegas NV. its now 2007 i still cry like it happened yesterday. but now i am having these dreams where i see my dad slipping and falling. as he begans to fall it slows down, then i snapps to where im 5 and im running to him, flashes back to him falling even slower then before. then flashes back to where im screaming at him but i dont hear a word being said throughout the dream. Then it shows my dad crying in his truck in a dessert storm im out of the truck and i cant get in. then flashes back to my dad falling but it goes at normal speed. he dies and im just standing there. then it slwoly fades to me standing over his grave! what does this mean? i cant sleep anymore!

Answer 1

oh sweetie i am so very sorry for your loss...what you are experiencing is guilt...you feel guilty about not being with your father and being locked up when he died...you couldn't get to him you couldn't help him....you couldn't even be there when he was found...the truck part is how you were at the time...you were locked out of the situation and away from him...it is not your fault he died...and none of us are where we want to be when a loved one dies...even if we are with them...some guilt will come through...you need to work through this and know that it is not your fault and i can say for myself if there was anything i could do to protect my father from dying i would have...it just happens and we cannot stop our fate...i hope you find some peace...you certainly deserve it

Answer 2

'I'm very sorry for all the cicumstance's that you've experienced. Sometimes you need extra help to work things out. No one knows what may have been different, he would have gone hiking even if you weren't in juvy, but being locked up caused more trauma , so is there a hospice near you?A company that deals w/ dying people usually has a counseling type group or phone service where you can call. This may take a little time, but one thing for sure it was not YOUR FAULT . Get busy w/ friends keep up the good nutrition and read something enjoyable in bed . Your dad probably would want you to be happy ! Good Luck

Answer 3

I'm no psychologist, but if you're for real I can tell you that we dream about things that are unresolved in our minds...when there is a big problem in our life our unconscious mind attempts to sort it out and this is done in dreams. Such a big event as that is sure to be the reason why you dream about it. Maybe you sensed at some level that your dad took his life into his own hands. I don't believe dreams have a supernatural side to them, but if it helps you to cope then maybe the message for you is that you going to juvy is not something that made your dad happy, and maybe you can make amends for this by making a good life fo ryourself and staying out of trouble, staying in school and getting an excellent job so you can work less when you are your dad's age and have a better life.

Answer 4

This is normal. Some people can dream about a passed loved one while another doesn't.
Get the books from "Sylvia Brown" and you'll be able to understand the dreams better.
There's a veil or shroud that surrounds the passed one, although they can see you, not in any private situation but, seeing you is one of their aspects.
If you can see them, you can pass this shroud or viel. Talking to them is another plane, most cannot do this.

I have seen several: My mother, father and grandmother. All were close in my life.
At this time, I have never seen them, until recently, from the front, only from the back. They have to my knowledge seen me, from the front. They have never spoken with me although I can hear them talk.
My mother did come to me in a drem and told me it was my fathers time to go with her, he passed that afternoon.
I had died in a fatal heart attack and was brought back, my grandmother told me it wasn't my time and I wasn't wanted there just yet, to go back. No one will believe me.

I have wondered how much of this is true. My one sister has the same dreams while the other three have only sparodoic parts of these dreams. What do they mean. I don't know. We were all very close, lived close together.

Don't be afraid but, accept this dream and try and ask your father what he's trying to tell you. There is something out there. Don't be afraid. Try and understand. Try prayer, that seems to comfort all of us and the ones that have passed. ,maybe they know something we don't?

Answer 5

I’m not a professional therapist, and even though it’s been two years since your father’s death, it sounds like you are grieving. Work through it. Remember the times your father was proud of you; apologize for the mistakes. Do it at his grave, in a special place where the two of you went, or in a letter. Say it out loud. Get a good book on grieving and understand that what you are going through is normal. Good luck and talk to those close to you about what is going on. See a therapist if you need to. Do what you have to do to get through this. Talk about all the feeling associated with you and your father. Death is not an easy thing to accept. Good luck and you will make it!

Answer 6

well the only reason why u keep on dreaming about him is because u urself still cant accept the fact that he's already dead thats why so many flashbacks, dont u know that ur dad still sees you and he still in the world of the living coz he cant leave u like this his soul still not rested because of you! try to accept it! i know its hard but its not only who shoulders the burden also him, lets put it these way, be calm and realize that ur father is in much safer place now hes with the lord right now hes purpose to this world is done but then his mission is just starting c'mon try to forget what happen and live with it yo can do it by keeping urself busy for example being a part of an organization or club where u can enhance ur talents and most of all u have ur friends!u have me, maybe we dont know each other personally but you can always email me and ill be willing to answer you whenevr ive got the chance!
explore the world and have a very busy and exciting life ok?!!!!

Answer 7

arabs say there are three types of dreams

first, a dream from god, where you feel happy when you wake up, god wants you to be happy, it could mean something in the future will happen (could be bad or good) and god wants you to know, for example if you see a tooth has fallen it may that some one will die

second, dream from the devil, where you feel very sad when you wake up, the devil wants to hurt you by making you sad

third, a mix up of memories and emotions, and usualy very long dream, it does not mean anything.

they also say that the soul of dead visits the living in their dreams, it may be because he has unfinished business or a debt or any thing he wants you to do for him, or he is sorry that he left you or he wants to say sorry to you, you should do something in his name, such as feeding a poor person or give money to a charity where they feed hungry people, this may feed his soul. ask around if your father has unfinished business

i think your dream is just in the second or thrid type, so don't worry, just pray to god to protect you from the devil before you sleep,

Answer 8

Sorry for your loss.

the best I can guess is that you are having this dream out of guilt. you may feel that you dissapointed him or let him down by getting busted by cops at a young age and had to attend his funeral in shackels. best I can tell you is to see a psycologist and work through your grief and maybe find a way to honor his memory.

Answer 9

try relaxing...maybe your dad is just trying to tell you something...try and recall something from your dreams...my mum has a best friend who died and she kept dreaming about her...some strange plances and things...when all the pieces of dreams got together...its just telling her what she is doing now and what happen...