i just married in jan. i really love her but she is suspecting my love. she always say i don't like her not belive me i don't know what to do? pls some one help me......
2007-06-02 01:16:11 · 11 answers · asked by peter 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You are only five Months married. My goodness, you should not be having troubles at this early stage. I suggest that the best solution is to sit down with your wife and find out why it is that she is feeling this way. Have you cheated on her before? Look into yourself first and if you really don't know why she is thinking this way then be honest with her. She will sense if you are not telling the truth. Most women are very good at that and you will not get away with it. A marriage will succeed or fail on how you solve your problems.
Best Wishes,
Grandpa
2007-06-02 01:24:06 · answer #1 · answered by Peter F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she needs attentation. Do you hugs her every chance you get and kiss her (french Kiss) too, do you offer her a drink or to help her out? Do you say I love you all the time? Do you give her flowers or something special she likes? Do you listen to her? Do you hold her? Talk to her and see what she needs. Trust me I have been there in marriage. Guys forget when they marry that they still need to keep the lady interested and she could leave. Talk, listen closely and make some changes she needs. good luck. im me if you have questions.
2007-06-02 02:02:37 · answer #2 · answered by mcalano77 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it would be hard for you
how do you reassure your wife of your love and devotion
thats exactly it reassurance
whatever you do dont say I married you didnt I ( my husband says that can make it worse )
leave her notes send her random text messages to her cell phone
sometimes flowers help although she would proberly ask what you have done maybe say clear
I know for me it all comes down to my confidence and it takes time I have my good and bad days
I suspect with your wife there maybe a underlying factor as to why she is like this
our past sometimes comes to haunt us
all you can do is never give up tell her daily and talk to her
it will take time but both of you will get there
I know because I can be like your wife and well we have been married for four years but I am getting there
Good LUck it will be ok
2007-06-02 01:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by Jeni W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's got the guy, now she's worried about keeping the guy. Simply tell her to trust you. Tell her that with time, she will see that all you want to do is love her. Always be honest with her, tell her everyday that you love her. Do what you say you're going to do and in time she will relax. Yes, cold feet can happen after the wedding as well.
2007-06-02 01:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by These Eyes See Everything 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people have a hard time believeing that people love them. If this continues, I would suggest marriage counceling.
2007-06-02 01:43:04 · answer #5 · answered by mamatucker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She seems to have some self-esteem issues. Perhaps some counseling will get her back on track.
2007-06-02 01:20:07 · answer #6 · answered by Patty G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kiss her frequently and assure her of your love. She will get it by your actions along with those three words- I love you.
2007-06-02 01:43:26 · answer #7 · answered by Dawnita R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with answer man. If she won't talk just with you. Maybe marriage counseling, or personal counseling just for her.
2007-06-02 01:24:00 · answer #8 · answered by Christine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she is questioning your love because she is guilty about questioning her own love towards you. That might help.
2007-06-02 01:20:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its one of the things that all newly weds go throiugh...
you're gonna have to talk it out and learn what she needs you to do to show your love and make her feel secure
2007-06-02 01:19:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋