Why Muslim women can not underestand this?

Question

That Muslim men make them silly. They all the time say that Islam gave many rights to women for example one of them is this that she shouldn't wash the dishes and this is not her duty to work in house for her husband.

Did you underetand that they only give those rights to women that they are sure she can never get them.

It is impossible for a woman to don't work in the home. Even if she tell her husband I will not work in your house he will tell her, it is ok, I will marry with another woman.

Most Muslim women suffer from Islam. This is fact and You men are devil and make them your slave.

I am Muslim girl and live in Iran and all the rules here are against women.

Answer 1

SalaamAlaikum my little Sister,

Oh my goodness. It saddens me to hear that you are suffering in your country. I'm a Muslim woman, and I totally agree that Muslim womn and girls are suffering great oppression at the hands of men around the world. I've read about things like "honor killings", female circumcision, forced marriages, and other acts of violence done to Muslim women at the hands of men. But young girls like you can change things.

Just the fact that you have recognized that what men are doing is wrong, is a step in the right direction. Maybe you can form an organization with other young girls in your neighborhood who feel the same way; and maybe you can meet once a month to discuss these issues. Men are not going to free you, you will have to free and liberate yourselves.

Also, the most powerful thing that you can do is Get An Education. Continue to go to school, get good grades. Also, maybe you should not get married and start having children until you are financially independant as an adult woman--that way, your life wont be controlled by a man. Remember, "He who owns, controls", So if you get married and your husband makes all the money and he is taking care of you, then he will control you. Men dont force you to become a slave; you become the slave when you dont stand up for yourself, and when you dont get an education and get a good career and take care of yourself and make your own money. If you dont want a man to control you for the rest of your life, then you must make your own money, and buy your own house, buy your own car, and take care of yourself when you become a woman. You dont have to get married sister. There is more to life than getting married and having 10 babies. No, instead, you can become a sucessful, strong, independant woman who makes your own money. That way you wont have to be a slave. Pray to Allah to make you a sucessful woman-- Allah gave you a brain and intelligence; and you have a lot to offer this world than just getting married, making babies, and cleaning a house all day long. The Prophets first wife Khadija was a sucessful businesswomen before she met him and before they got married. (peace be upon them)

When you get older, it would be good for you to join some political organizations, and maybe you can get a job in politics. Politics is a great way to make great change, because you can pass laws that will help give women more power and freedom in your country. Its important for women to be involved in all levels of government. Maybe you can become a mayor or a city council woman. Who knows, maybe you can even become President of Iran one day. It can happen.

I live in the United States, and I was born Muslim as well. Muslims in other countries make it seem like the United States is this horrible place; but its a very wonderful place. Do you know why its wonderful? Because women are free in America. We can do what we want, go to school where we want ,and work wherever we want. I am very grateful that Allah made me be born here. Also, us Muslim women over here want you women in Iran to know that you are our sisters, and we hope that you get an education, and get sucess, and freedom. And we hope that you fight for your rights. You must fight!

Pretty soon, America will get a brand new President, and she is going to be a woman named Hillary Clinton. She will be the first woman president in American history, and she, I hope, will help bring peace and friendship between the United States and the Middle East. Women in America had to fight for the right to vote, fight for the right to get equal treatment the same as men for many years--and you can do the same in Iran. Dont be a victim, be a Survivor, and be a Leader.

SalaamAlaikum,
and I wish you Peace and Power.

Answer 2

wow this is interesting because I am a Muslim from a very large family and I know many other Muslim families and no one treats the women that way......... You do realize that it is not Islam, have you never read the Quran? I think its more of a cultural thing then anything else.. I am Muslim, and so is my mom and she works she has her own car, bank accounts job everything.. I work, have my own car, and do every I want to... So do most other females in my family and most of them live back in Pakistan.. It was the same way when we lived in Pakistan..... besides you do realize that Most men don't remarry because according to Quran all must be equal and thats a hard thing to achieve.
On another note you do realize that western women did not have all the rights and stuff till they fought for them.. you can't sit at home and want the rights to be delivered to you in a silver platter..... Divorce is legal in Islamic Law and in Iran..(my uncle used to live there) if you hate your husband why did you marry him? and why are you still there?
Western guys think of women as a sex toy.. Believe it or not.. Every time we walk across they stare at you.... thats not respect... They use you then discard you.. there are songs about that.... I think that in Iran its a cultural thing and not Islamic thing.... so don't go bringing Quran in the middle..
Islam puts Heaven in the mothers feet... Mohamed (pbuh) himself used to help around in the house..
oh and there have been Muslim female president while the west still has never had a female president...
Also it is harder for women to get as much of a good job as a men and we get payed less too

Answer 3

This is unfortunate. Even in America, women still earn less money than men, even when they do the same jobs. There is a story about women in ancient Greece. It is only a story, but it sets an example. The men wanted to make war. All the women got together and said "we will not have children with you if you make another war." So the men stayed at home and lived a peaceful life.

Maybe Muslim women should start getting together and do something so that men will see their women as partners and not as servants. American women know about Muslim women and we wish things were different for you.

Answer 4

Women have many rights in Islam. It has never been up to men to "give" women their rights. They don't have that authority. Because of male ego or male pride, a lot of men do not accept women having any rights. These men perceive themselves as belonging to the "chosen" or "superior gender;" therefore, they should have all the rights. There is no such concept in Islam.

In Islam, women are the human, social, intellectual, and spiritual equals of men. Women are not inferior to men. Women are not subservient to men. Being female doesn't make women second-class (or even worse, no-class). They are first-class all the way! If men cannot grasp this, that's not the problem of women.

Answer 5

well i think its about your culture
im a muslim woman and alhamdulillah
i have a happy life..and proudly breath in Islam

Islam places great emphasis on the role of the Muslim woman as a wife and particularly as a mother, and Muslims are often of the opinion that the best position for the woman is in the home with her children and family.

However, the Muslim woman is not prohibited from leaving her home to pursue education, a career, or other worthwhile and constructive goals that profit not only her but society as well.
The Koran establishes the spiritual equality and mutual responsibility of man and woman in verses such as the following: "But whosoever does good works of righteousness, whether they be a believing male or female, shall enter Paradise, and not be wronged a pit mark of a date stone. Koran 4:124.
"And indeed their Lord answered them, 'I do not waste the labor of any that labors among you, male or female, you are from each other. Koran 3:195.

The relationship of the Muslim husband to his wife is NOT that of master to slave. Rather the entire responsibility of economic support is placed on the shoulders of the husband alone. He cannot demand of his wife that she also become economically productive to support the family, although she is able to do this if she desires.

The Koran explains this responsibility of men to women in the following verse: "Men are the maintainers of women for that Allah has preferred in bounty one of them over the other, and for that they have spent their wealth. Righteous women are obedient, guarding in secret that which Allah has guarded." Koran 4:34.

The important point that should be made is that the religion of Islam has great respect for the woman.

be patient ..i know this is hard...be strong
may Allah bless you now and always...

Answer 6

I guess you are refering to some men that dont understand nor apply Islam in their lives as far as giving rights to Muslim women is concerend. A God fearing person would not do anything to try to displease Allah Subhanawataalah.

The way u have put it is :

"Most Muslim women suffer from Islam." Sister I hope u get free from such men. But Islam is not to blame.

Ma 'Salaam. Prayers.

Answer 7

I dont envy you at all, but many people get confused between what is their religion, and what is part of their culture. This is why there is so much inconsistancy from one muslim to another, from one muslim family to another.
You describe yourself as a muslim 'girl' & you sound like you hate men right now, describing them as the devil.
I wish I could suggest that you dont get married... but to be realistic Im not sure you will have much of a choice.
Life isn't meant to be this way.
My heart goes out to you.

Answer 8

Islam must come to a balance with their female counterparts; harmonized itself, like the yin-yang, there cannot be one sided power; this is tyranny; and tyranny brings injustice, heartache, suffering, and all ignorance.

Now may every living thing, young or old, weak or strong, living near or far, known or unknown, living or departed or yet unborn, may every living thing be full of bliss.

Buddha

Answer 9

I am a muslim girl, i practise my religion and never have felt opressed by it. Islam does not consider women as slaves, you are totally wrong.
Islam granted rights to women since 1400 years.

Answer 10

doesnt it have to do with your religion?
im not sure the rules will ever change i truly think that muslim women should have rights and not be forced to be a mans slave.