im 16 and i have never been kissed.
most of my friends have and all they seem to talk about is whos a good kisser and who isnt..i would love to join in on there conversations but i cant really and they dont know i havent kissed anyone..i dont want them to know.
the school disco is coming up and usually the guys & girls 'hook up' but i usually try and avoid that by staying away from the boys. i really do want to kiss a guy but i think in a way im scared..what if i'm bad and he goes and tells everyone? what if i bite him and what do i actually DO?
some people say its really easy but how can it be easy..it doesnt look easy and i really dont want to mess anything up, it would be to embarassing.
im so scared..please help!
2007-06-02 00:02:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take your time! Don't rush into anything! Good luck!
2007-06-02 00:05:32 · answer #1 · answered by krafty1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was almost 16 when I had my first kiss. I was so nervous. I had always been told "just do what they do." And it seem to have worked out fine. And I would wait until it's some one you really like. My first kiss is so special to me and I wouldn't change it for anything! But, here are a couple of tips to help you out.
Don't open your mouth to big.
Don't stick your tongue to far in.
Don't be agrresive about it.
Just kind of do whatever the guy is doing. Be soft.
2007-06-02 22:08:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know what, I was like you before. But then, I met a guy who has never kissed anyone, too. We had fun together and kissed eventually. The experience's indescribable (Haha, now it has a description). Anyways, don't worry. I am sure you will not be tense if the guy is a first timer like you :) Hope you meet someone like my bf so you'll feel better :)
2007-06-02 07:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush into it. One day you will meet someone you really care about, and he will care about you. Then you will kiss. Don't do it with just any guy because you have never been kissed. If you will wait for the right guy, then the kisses will really mean something, and will be easy for you do. ok?
2007-06-02 07:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by barbwire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Head up girl!Not being kissed at 16 makes you the best girl of the group. And never be afraid for your lack of knowledge in it. It only proves you're clean and it really is your first. You'll learn it along the way.
2007-06-02 07:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by Ernesto S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, there's no way to avoid the tension of a first kiss. When the time is right, it will happen. Don't force it. Try to relax, difficult as it is, because the more tense you are, the more ofan issue it will become.
2007-06-02 07:06:28 · answer #6 · answered by Snoopy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold on a a moment, you will get kissed !
there is no hurry and trust me there is no use of it too at times i mean unless you get someone who really loves you!.
Wait for the right one and dont spoil you feelings for someone else who just is looking to quench the thirst.
Decision is always yours !!
Peace
2007-06-02 07:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by êNVY_Mè 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing is to relax :) In fact, nothing scary will happen ;) Your mouth has to be slightly open, your tongues will touch gently and that's all. (At the beginning the kiss may even not be a French one :P) Good Luck and remember - it is very important to be calm.
2007-06-02 12:49:40 · answer #8 · answered by ChillyღAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiss sum on u lik r it wont work and just relax and go wit it it is easy once ur doin it
2007-06-02 07:06:08 · answer #9 · answered by alc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for a boy who will be understanding and not care... a boy who will make it special, and if you bite him, you can both laugh about it. also, don't kiss and tell... it's not cool
2007-06-02 07:05:53 · answer #10 · answered by :-D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋