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If he's a God fearing man he would never be just a lifetime partner. Did you mean to say, "I'm lonely and looking for a husband"? If you want to attract a God fearing man go to church and let God take care of the rest. All too often we get together with the people we want, not the one God wants. God may or may not have someone for you at this time. It's up to him, not you. Or you can do it the way you've always done it and eventually wonder why you continue to attract the wrong "type" of men. Get to church and let God do with you what he will. You won't regret it, I promise.

2007-06-01 23:11:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I'm not religious, but I do have heavy sociological / anthropological background. If you feel the need to "fear" your God, then it's because you feel guilty for something, or you want to feel victimized. Most folks don't fear their God. They love their God. God is like the ultimate leader. As Machiavelli said, a good leader must be both loved and feared. If he is just loved, then people will still do what they want against his wishes at times. If he is just feared, then they won't love their own lives, only doing what he wants out of fear of ramifications. If they love and fear him, then they will do what he wants out of love and respect first, and out of fear second. Let me try to use a different analogy for God... God, in most peoples' eyes, is like a good parent. A good parent uses 2 parts love and 1 part discipline to ensure people lead a good life. 1 part love is unconditional. God loves you unconditionally, because you are his creation. (Just as a parent loves their child unconditionally). 1 part love is for positive reinforcement. God shows you love to reward your good behavior. This is what most folks call "blessings", "miracles", etc. Parents do the same with them children; give them hugs when they succeed. 1 part discipline is used for negative reinforcement. God punishes people when they've been bad. Parents do the same to children. Now, most people will follow a Godly life simply because they respect and love God due to 1 part unconditional love, and 1 part positive reinforcement. If that doesn't work then they fear the 1 part discipline. However, what's "blessing" and "punishment" from God is subjective. Different religions, and even individuals, may see something as a blessing while others see it as a curse. Everyone can see whatever they want into something. When a mother hugs a child, it's pretty tangible that it's a hug. But, when a person finds $5 on the street is that a blessing? What if it just enables them to do something bad? I think the better way to look at God is that he gives people chances. The $5 is an opportunity. How the person chooses to use that opportunity dictates whether it's a "blessing" or "curse".

2016-03-13 04:21:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Just continue to enjoy your life and live it in a manner that pleases God and He will connect you with the right God-fearing man, in His way and in His time.

2007-06-01 23:06:39 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0 0

Are you a good God fearing woman or just looking for someone scared straight by religion

2007-06-01 23:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0 0

Maybe you shouldn't discriminate on the basis of religion? Lots of non-believers are wonderful lifetime partners.

2007-06-01 23:01:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

By putting the fear of God in him!lol

2007-06-01 23:18:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Beat the fear of God into him. Christians have been doing it for 2,000 years or so. Seems to work.

2007-06-01 23:01:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

Pray.

2007-06-01 23:05:51 · answer #8 · answered by warjo2611 2 · 0 0

Attend church functions. And pray for him, God will send him your way.

2007-06-01 23:02:00 · answer #9 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0 2

Can my god be thor?

2007-06-01 23:03:54 · answer #10 · answered by Michael M 4 · 1 1

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