I think time spent anywhere is a way to eliminate unfathomable loneliness. I cannot understand why some people insist that those who spend a lot of time online have "no life". People do not always have to be in front of you to be your friends. It took me 32 years to truly learn that, and I am beyond blessed with the people I have met. Going to a bar or hanging out at a club is not my kind of life. I am a homebody. I am fortunate enough to have found the love of my life. The friends I have made here are icing on the cake.
I was unfathomably lonely once. It took me years to realize that our perception of who we care for and who we allow to care for us often manifests loneliness. If you perceive yourself to be amidst friends online even though you might not be inundated with them in real life, then there is no need to feel unfathomably lonely. My upbringing was torturous and my 20s were hell. Once I opened myself up to the idea that others could help even if I didn't know them (sometimes especially so!) I realized that I could have a hand in curing my own sense of "unbelonging".
This is not to say that I never feel lonely. Some days are tougher than others. I do know that people love and care for me however, and it helps with my fears of abandonment and/or condemnation.
2007-06-01 20:46:48
·
answer #1
·
answered by Anonymous
·
2⤊
0⤋
No, though single, I am not unfathomably lonely. I think tedium is more like it. I try to kill time until movie time (which is late) so I can keep my movies in reserve should I have a bout of insomnia.
2007-06-01 20:19:38
·
answer #2
·
answered by Anonymous
·
1⤊
0⤋
Could be. Except for the unfathomable part. And the loneliness part. Scruffycat and Auroradawn are more like what I do. Avoiding things, and bored with TV. This is my escape....MUAHAHAHAHA!
2007-06-01 20:18:07
·
answer #3
·
answered by Shinigami 7
·
2⤊
0⤋
Spending time here for me has nothing to do with lonliness. It has all to do with sharing the Word and love of God and His Son, Jesus who died for me and you so that we may live eternally with Him forever in Heaven. I so do not want anyone to die without knowing Our Lord. God bless
2007-06-01 20:19:55
·
answer #4
·
answered by connie 6
·
0⤊
0⤋
Wow. That doesnt sound like a virgo in any admire. it ought to in elementary terms be the adult adult males and ladies you recognize on the grounds that i understand many virgos and that they are very docile. they're laid back now no longer actual abusive. maximum virgos arent stepped forward so frustrating the two they're tall in maximum circumstances lol and that they are fairly picky, sarcastic yet now no longer verbally abusive. and anybody gets mad often, your human beings in simple terms take it to a distinctive point and no offense besides the incontrovertible fact that interestingly like they desire help in the event that they're bodily abusive. And u being a libra you're precise, u wont understand them lol. Libras choose rapidly earlier in spite of. They dont examine each and all of the information like a virgo does so as that they won't get alongside all that stable too. No offense. it relies upon on delivery charts and u've checked they're majority virgo....What approximately their mars sign? Cuz if its virgo then they wont be abusive in any of the adventure, they had be the opposite! Virgos are many times candy hearts with OCD =].
2016-12-12 09:01:48
·
answer #5
·
answered by ? 3
·
0⤊
0⤋
Lonliness is why I have instant messenger. Entertainment is why I come here.
2007-06-01 20:46:14
·
answer #6
·
answered by Becca 6
·
0⤊
0⤋
Loneliness is one of the reasons I stay here. When I think about doing something else sometimes I feel so lonely, then I realize why I was on here.
2007-06-01 20:19:02
·
answer #7
·
answered by Heron By The Sea 7
·
1⤊
0⤋
No... it's called Avoidance 101. I have always aced that class, for some reason.
It goes like this... I have something more important to do... so... I guess it's time to organize that sock drawer...
2007-06-01 20:16:49
·
answer #8
·
answered by scruffycat 7
·
0⤊
0⤋
Yes,
I actually just finished playing video games and need some intellectual time. Plus I am night owl...hoot.hoot.
2007-06-01 20:17:58
·
answer #9
·
answered by keemster05 3
·
1⤊
0⤋
depends on the individule's comfort level. if they feel not alone then so be it. the real purpose of this room is to answer questions if we have any questions about the bible, tora, quran etc. but unfortunatly other people taint our questions with foolish answers.
2007-06-01 20:18:21
·
answer #10
·
answered by Kristenite’s Back! 7
·
0⤊
0⤋