What happened to all the good women? I'm 24, and seem to meet the most selfish, worldly, and shallow women on the planet. I see these pathetic boyfriends that they are with, who they just use for sex, and then when they are done, they move onto the next guy.
I'd rather stay single the rest of my life, than end up with one of these broads. I know there are good women out there, but they are becoming very scarce. Maybe I just attract the psycho ones?
2007-06-01 18:28:42 · 9 answers · asked by voodewchile 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No I don't meet them at clubs. I've met them at work, concerts, parties, even CHURCH.
Clubbing ain't my thing.
2007-06-01 18:34:15 · update #1
Below...if you read my question more carefully, I didn't categorize ALL women like that...in fact I mentioned there were still good women out there, they just seemed to be scarce. Reading Comprehension 101. Sign up for it.
2007-06-01 18:35:28 · update #2
Cool gal. Sorry for the psycho boyfriend. You should have seen warning signs.
2007-06-01 18:37:12 · update #3
I take offense to that statement you made about women being untrustworthy and conniving. I'm 20 and I know several good/great women who are nothing like the ones that you are describing. Although I do know some girls like the ones you mention. Notice how I differentiated between the women and the girls. I know some girls who are 25 even but have just decided to not act like a grown up for some reason. I can't explain it personally but you won't get very far generalizing women like that. Maybe you should look for women at different places than you are right now. You could try a church, grocery store, sporting event, any store really, the bank or on a stroll of a busy park. You'll find a good one soon, just make sure you treat her right.
2007-06-01 18:39:37 · answer #1 · answered by J 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't mean to burst your bubble, but I'm sure there is alot wrong with you including your shallow mind. Do you ever stop to think for a minute why most women are worldly? Don't believe everything you see and only half of what you think. Until you can walk a mile in a woman's shoes, don't assume anything.
Why are most women the way they are today? Maybe it's because over the centuries most men have been untrusworthy and kiniving, they lie, they cheat, they are abusive, they don't support their families, and they let their buddy in their lower anotomy do most of their thinking for them.
Women today don't have much choice in the way that they "seem" to be, they have to compete with men for jobs and when they get a job they are paid at a lower pay scale for the same or better work. Women have to go the extra mile in everything they do while their male counterparts play golf and smoke fat cigars discussing how they will keep women out of their "club."
If you want to meet a good woman, you need to stop calling them "broads," you need to keep an open mind and not automatically assume that they are selfish and shallow, and you need to admire how worldy she is (she can teach you a few things like being more compassionate towards humanity).
Your mindset determines the type of woman that will accept an invitation from you. You are what you believe and that is what you will attract.
Maybe you will be better off doing what caramelchocolate suggests, date men!
2007-06-05 09:45:04 · answer #2 · answered by terrytheterrifyc 1 · 0⤊ 5⤋
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2016-11-03 09:36:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cannot categorize all people like that - not all people are the same, not all women are the same. everyone is unique. Well where are you going to meet women? I don't think it's true that good women are scarce, I bet they are out there. It depends on what you are looking for and how you are looking.
2007-06-01 18:33:34 · answer #4 · answered by art_flood 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i had the same problem after my divorce. i couldnt believe how women had changed, and their preconcieved perception that all men are dogs, and that men are the enemy. i hated the relationships that i had and was thouroughly convinced that women had morphed into something other than what i knew before i got married. but dont give up, because i discovered that there are good women out there! you just have to search for them far and wide. i had totally given up on women when i met my present wife. she is the one that i had been looking for. and i found her! it wasnt easy but i did find her-so dont give up yet. keep searching, cause i guaruntee you she is out there.
2007-06-01 18:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by darvosix 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well excuse the hell out of you... Let me tell you my love story, okay buddy?! 2 years ago this man pursued me and wanted to get me and I didn't give him a chance, but then a week later I saw how he really was into me and I gave him a damn chance... and then after that I gave him my everything and sacrificed my everything and just did everything for him and you know what HE DID? One year and a half later just one day and he changed into a bipolar jerk psycho bastard and just forgot that one year and a half... You tell me who the UNTRUSTWORTHY AND IT'S CONNIVING! - rolls eyes -. That just proves your theory darn wrong. Men are scums!
2007-06-01 18:35:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
the problem isn't psychos being attracted to you. You are attracted to them.
Where are you looking for women? Let me guess, clubs?
2007-06-01 18:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by jloertscher 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
holy **** dude.... u sound like me!!!!!!! every girl ive been with has been soooooo selfish, and ive been used by them....then u meet another gurl and think "this one is different" and then, shock horror, shes more selfish than the last one... good women are scare, they usually have boyfriends (who dont appreciate them).... i know it sucks dude, but hey.... hopefully one day things will change..good luck
2007-06-01 18:36:06 · answer #8 · answered by Casper Sparks 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
date more men instead.
2007-06-01 19:30:08 · answer #9 · answered by caramelchocolatecamilla 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋