I'm a beautiful single female but i've noticed men being attracted to these loud, club hopping, have to be seen by everyone, decietful, trashy women. Why is that?
2007-06-01 18:24:57 · 26 answers · asked by tawana p 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my opinion, if a guy is attracted to this...its only temporary. He might pay attention to women like this because he recognizes how desperately she wants attention, which might mean she is an "easy" piece of meat for him. It could also mean that hes just not that serious with her, and never plans on being. Like I said, just temporary....just a little fun until she gets too out of hand, or disrespects him.
It depends on the guy though... Some guys might end up with women like this because they have low self esteem, and are willing to let aggressive women walk all over them and disrespect them. They will play it cool like they're really happy with her, and she treats him great...but it starts to show. She treats him terribly, wants all the attention, controls him, manipulates, cheats, you name it. This is probably what you're refering to.
Don't worry, the only guys who want this are crazy or very immature. Most aren't attracted to this at all. The only thing that might turn them on is the chase to keep her attention, but it is lost when she becomes annoying and acts disrespectful towards ppl. They might just play it cool like everything's ok, like the girl isn't hurting them and they are in control. But thats just an act, believe me.
You will find someone before you even realize it, so don't sweat it. Ignore these trashy females, they don't really matter and you shouldn't compare yourself to them. Just stand by what you believe in, maintain your femininity and submit tons of positivity to the world. You can't fail with that!
2007-06-01 18:47:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They Are Immature As Stated Above. I Think It's A Matter Of Low Self Esteem. Believe Me. Men Are Afraid Of The Beautiful Good Ladies Out There. Don't Let It Bother You G/F You'll Find A Great Guy. He's Out There, I Know. Just Dust Yourself Off And Try Again. Good Luck....Gidge
2007-06-01 21:28:00 · answer #2 · answered by thegidget2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're allowed to love what you prefer. Attraction is a relatively elaborate factor and are not able to be entirely rationalized IMO. Lots of evolutionary stuff in there as good as familiarity(that means 'reminds of loved ones' on this case) and private style. And I consider such a lot ladies desire to look a few spine in a man. Being a man, I even like to look that during a lady. I do not desire her to be a domineering b$%ch(actully, I consider such a lot spineless men had this sort of mom) and whilst I do not desire her to simply don't have any opinion of her possess. Something within the center is best.
2016-09-05 19:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by murchison 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well usually guys at a certain age or mentality,seem to be attracted to a girl just for the passion and not the love. It could be that the atmosphere your in is full of young guys lookin for girls that give it up with no strings attached. When a guy gets over partying or matures, he usually looks for the beatiful, loving and calmer lady. i suggest you meet different kinds of people. Dont go to a club too look for a guy that is not into club hoppin women.
2007-06-01 18:40:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing i can blame that on is lack of self confidence, youth and a desire not to settle down just yet ...
it's sad because a lot of the really nice kind and wonderful men happen to have low self confidence when it comes to dating... and they think they wouldn't have a chance with their crush... and instead of trying, they admit defeat early and then only accept the advances of other women (like the ones you described) rather then risk rejection.
which means the "nice" men miss out on dating the "nice" women and visa versa.
ALSO it's easy to spot a girl like the ones you've described. they are everywhere and very social. So men meet them all sorts of places. But the "nice" girls... they are harder to meet as they aren't as obvious or in-your-face.
unless a man works in a job, social life or hobby where he can mingle with women, it can be near impossible for him to meet a "nice" woman, so he meets the chicks that approach him or invite his attention at the clubs and pubs.
2007-06-01 19:05:14 · answer #5 · answered by chilly 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're just looking at the wrong guys. Sometimes, the people we like are mirrors to ourselves. Women are like apples, the ones at the top are the best, but so many guys won't risk the climb because they're afraid of the fall. There are good guys out there, who do like nice women, but you just have to be the very best person you can be and let it be from there.
2007-06-01 18:28:11 · answer #6 · answered by Madama Butterfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The squeaky wheel gets the grease.Guys know that these girls are out to have a good time.And with any luck they will be part of that good time.The guys you speak of are just as shallow as the women are trashy.Dont worry about what they do.A real man will come along and you will wonder why you ever cared.
2007-06-01 18:31:07 · answer #7 · answered by john s 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like the saying goes. Date the bad ones, marry the good ones. Guys just wanna hop around before they get ready to settle down. Dont worry, they'll be looking for you soon.
2007-06-01 18:28:16 · answer #8 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol I totally hate those kind of girls I need a quite nice young intelligent female that I can build a relationship with not a one night stand which is why guys are into those kind of girls
2007-06-01 23:38:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they're more fun, you don't have to be as guarded around the trashy one's because they don't have unreasonably high standards. They're less work and they put out more.
Send me an IM and tell me what you're doing next Friday.
2007-06-01 18:29:41 · answer #10 · answered by Stepchild 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋