for more than one month...Yesterday, we made out and he told me that "you should exercise more"...I thought to myself: "I'm 5 feet and 2 inches tall and weight 105 lbs; I'm not too fat or not too skinny. So why does he say that?"...He keep saying "You should exercise more" four times on that day...And he made me wonder why did he say that....I need opinion from the guy's perspective please....So what is "you should exercise more" in the guy's language?
2007-06-01 18:11:26 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not a guy, but i know plenty of them. i doubt he's telling you to loose weight. exercising is important for everyone's health. he probably is just encouraging you to be more fit.
2007-06-01 18:15:15 · answer #1 · answered by sparkly_chrimsa 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not necessarily. Since when is it bad for a guy to say it was nice meeting you? Shy guys don't always go in for the kiss on the first date, sometimes *you* have to kiss *them* first. Give him a chance, you've only had one date so far. If within the next couple of weeks there are no plans for date #2, then you can write him off. But this is just too early.
2016-05-19 01:12:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, women try too hard to read between the lines with guys. Guys generally say precisely what they mean, they don't veil stuff in innuendo the way women do. Just because you're skinny doesn't mean you're in good physical condition. Is he really into physical stuff? If so, then he wants you to be able to keep up with him.
Or, he could just be a control freak.
2007-06-01 18:17:10 · answer #3 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe He needs to exercise more. There are some people like that. Like they'll accuse me of being angry but they are the one that is angry? - maybe he was commenting on what he thought you should do. You don't have to accept his advice. Maybe he's just concerned. I don't know. Maybe that's his way of inviting you to exercise with him. Who knows - I'm a guy and that doesn't make much sense to me. The only thing to do is to ask him what he meant by the comment.
2007-06-01 18:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by art_flood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't seem fat by the dimensions you gave, but maybe he thinks you're flabby and a workout would firm you up. Next time he asks you could get sarcastic and say, "What are you talking about? How can I improve THIS bod"? and see what he says. You could also throw it back on him. Tell him that he's lucky because you usually don't date guys with a gut bigger than yours!
2007-06-01 18:17:36 · answer #5 · answered by chicagosports_guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You certainly aren't fat. He is saying that to either get you to lose weight or to get you to tone up. Either way, if he isn't happy with the way you are then ditch him asap. If he is a health nut and works out a lot, then maybe he's trying to get you to do it with him so it's something you have in common, but for any other reason than that he's out of line.
2007-06-01 18:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
does he work out often? maybe he enjoys it and sees it as a way of spending time together. Or- he just wants you to lose weight. and if thats the case- kick him to the curb. I am 5'1 and 105 just like you. WE ARE NOT FAT AT ALL.
2007-06-01 18:17:50 · answer #7 · answered by Steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!! I would ask him what he means because you are not fat by any means. He is really crazy if he wants you to loose more weight. You are at the bottom of your weight index for your height so definetely do not loose, maybe he thinks you need to tone up but how rude. I would ask what he means.
2007-06-01 18:19:18 · answer #8 · answered by Searching for help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5'2" and 105lbs, you sound like my dream girl for crying out loud! Generally if a guy says that he thinks you need to lose weight but you obviously dont need to. If he keeps it up, give him a good slap and bring him into reality! If he still does it then ditch him because you can do better!
2007-06-01 18:15:54 · answer #9 · answered by Adam G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, does he work out a lot himself? I am not a guy, so I know that you aren't looking for answers from "me".. but you are tiny as it is. There is no reason for you to "work out more." Don't let him get to you and make you self conscious about this. I would be careful with him. It always start with the small things... Remain secure in yourself.
2007-06-01 18:15:35 · answer #10 · answered by DeAnna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your weight is good for your height, so I assume he's either a butt-head or he wants you to tone up your muscles a bit. What shape is his body in? If he's one of these Tony Atlas workout dudes, he's trying to push his ego off on you, wanting you to tone up and look good beside him...a matched set. However, if he's in no shape to tell you to exercise, then tell him exactly that.
2007-06-01 18:16:25 · answer #11 · answered by unclewill67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋