I met this amazingly attracting girl, got her number and never called. ONLY because i was busy. Then i saw her again and she seemed pretty pissed
Exactly how bad is it not to call? What do you girls think when we dont call?
2007-06-01 18:10:24 · 12 answers · asked by andrey007ua 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why get a number if you're not gonna call? That was pretty rude. Sometimes you only get one chance. Looks like you blew it.
She probably thinks that if this is what happens with a simple phone number, how would you be in a relationship....
2007-06-01 18:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by ciberpunk1 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I usually have never cared if a guy calls me or not. I have to like them a little bit before I care if they call me or not. But I do think a guy might not like me if he never calls, so then I might not speak to him out of not wanting to show him any feeling, rather good or bad. So don't be so hung up on yourself. Women probally wouldn't want to talk to a guy who doesn't give a darn to even call her after she gives him her number. It's not a right or a privilege for them girls to give you their number. It is a nice thing to do and it was a compliment to you. You could have at least called to ask how they are and then let it be at that. so hope you learn from this. Good luck to you also and God Bless you. It's OK really everyone has to learn before they can make things right. So try to make it right from here on out.
2007-06-01 18:21:32 · answer #2 · answered by SecretUser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's bad, and damaging to most girls' self confidence. It's happened to me a couple of times, and I think that the a$$hole guy was just playing a game trying to see how many numbers he could get, and that he never had any intention of calling me. Meanwhile, I'm counting the number of days that have gone by, asking my guy friends' opinions, wondering what I did wrong, etc.
If you don't think you're going to call (since you're so *busy*), just save her the hurt and frustration and don't get her number.
2007-06-01 18:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by Katiecat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are showing an interest and telling someone that you like them and would like to get in touch with them when you ask for their number. They, if they decide they like you, give you their number with the understanding that they like you and are agreeable for you to call them. They are expecting a call.
When you don't call it is not exactly a slap in the face, it is sort of like making a date without a set time and not following through.
2007-06-01 18:16:56 · answer #4 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a chick gives you her number, she's expecting you to call. She probably waited by the phone for a week. If you're not interested in her, or she gave you her number without you asking for it, then it's not as bad.
2007-06-01 18:14:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess girls feel like they are forgettable....I had a guy not call...and I just figured that he didn't want to and got over it...it wasn't like we were married. We met and that was it. If someone gets that pissed over no phone call...then I would pass on her. Of course, if you slept together, now that just makes men a jerk....
2007-06-01 18:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When u dont call we feel like u dont care. we feel like we r not good enough and we need to be better..... start wondering if ur with someone else..
2007-06-01 18:14:23 · answer #7 · answered by Alex B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's right to be upset. If you persued her enough to get her number, then you needed to use it. She could think all kinds of things and be right.
2007-06-01 18:13:35 · answer #8 · answered by art_flood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that you were just getting it to like win a bet or something.
like you're showing off.
i'd be pretty mad.
but if you expalin then maybe she will understand.
2007-06-01 18:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by that girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They think that you don't really like them and you are not in to the relationship
2007-06-01 18:14:51 · answer #10 · answered by neydah R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋