i was wondering why is it that people cheat and the reason why they did it. Is there any1 that has done if so tell me ur reason for doing it thank you
2007-06-01 14:55:07 · 5 answers · asked by CALI SWISS 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They feel inferior to their partner and then having found someone other then their spouse, they feel like they are more in control of their life. I believe its insecurity, they always want someone their in case one or the other leaves them.
Some people get a thrill out of having a double life and those who get caught usually choose to stay with the person they cheated on. WHY? Because most likely, their original partner is more sensitive to their partners feelings. and the cycle of chances begin.
Another common reason is a pattern or lifestyle that person might have grown up in. If most children grow up in an environment where the pparents arent the "typical" role models and are struggling, divorced or abusive, the person later on in life, sometimes unconsciously... doesn't believe or trust in love or solid relationship and might be repeating the pattern they experienced.
But the sad truth is, some just do it, because they think they can.
hope I helped
2007-06-01 15:04:17 · answer #1 · answered by ۩MoonLit Muslima۩ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is simple why people cheat. It is because he or she feels they aren't getting enough sex and romance in their present relationship that they look outside of their marriages or long-term relationships to find it. It could also mean too that they want their cake and eat it too. Another good reason is because they are too cowardly to make good on their present relationship or end it.
As for myself, I have never cheated. If I am in a bad relationship that is not satisfying me on every level and there is no hope of that changing, I will walk away from it. I have been the victim of someone cheating on me. Funny thing is that I was about 2 months from marrying her. Thankfully I found out before I put a ring on her finger.
2007-06-01 15:02:56 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey in case you have already got data he's cheating ("So i think of my bf is cheating doing the web ingredient I do have data, yet he hides his "cookies" temp records which could hint what you're doing online.. ") why might you desire to proceed torturing your self searching for extra data? only kick him to the cut back noone merits to be cheated on. i know its much less annoying pronounced than completed because of the fact i'm specific you like him, yet love your self extra. No guy is ever nicely worth your tears.
2016-11-24 23:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by siwani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my BF cheated on me- and tried to explain it later. i wasn't at some party and he wanted to plat spin the bottle. few weeks later i WALKED IN on him making out with one of my friends i got in a fight with. he said he didn't know why he did it- just wanted something new and fun for a while. i know- wtf. but its life. ppl who cheat u should never waste your time on after 1-2 second chances. if you really love them- another chance. if not- they will only hurt you again. i guess it depends on the situation . . .
2007-06-01 15:00:30 · answer #4 · answered by Kiki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they always want to be the best, be on the top or getting things without any pain
2007-06-01 14:59:56 · answer #5 · answered by sall a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋