i want a baby?

Question

iam single dont want to go for sperm bank route almost 31 what can i do coz i really i want a baby. is it just biological or what.

Answer 1

just go to a random guy and ask for some, or you could have a one night stand they are always good

Answer 2

OK, so the biological clock is ticking. But you still have a few years. Give yourself two years to find a good man to settle down with -- because it's sooooo much easier to raise kids when you have a partner. (Well, a good partner.)

Make a list of what you want in a husband, and the father of your children. Then go out and meet people like that. You probably won't find them in a bar. Go to church, or take classes. Get your married friends to set you up.

If a guy has ANY serious undesirable traits, move on immediately (stuff like no job, or he beats his girlfriends -- or he has a girlfriend!). If a guy seems so-so, give him two or three chances. Make it clear that you want to get married and have children by the third date. If they want to play around, dump them.

You don't have to find Mr. Perfect -- you just have to find a guy you can argue and compromise with. Someone who likes you and likes kids. Some you like, too. That like may grow into love. But even if it grows into divorce, at least you'll have a baby or two out of the deal.

I know that sounds cold and cynical, but so many romantic partnerships also end in divorce. Whereas in many arranged marriages, people find love and happiness for the rest of their lives. It depends a lot on attitude. Don't sit around waiting for True Love to show up on your doorstep. Even true love takes work, so you can nudge it along.

Answer 3

It could just be biological. At 31 you've plenty of time left to be having babies so there's no need to rush.

Answer 4

You are single, nearly 31,can you look after a baby on your on, a baby needs full time commitment from you, you need to think about the pros & cons of having a baby.and most of all can you afford one, they are expensive,and what about your job it you have one,
A baby is for life, once you have it ,you have to be there for it's every need, in sickness and health,and will you have help from your family, you cannot do this on your own, your will have a lonely life if you do, and have no help, think very carefully about everything.

Answer 5

First ask yourself if you are able to raise a child on your own. Do you have the financial stability, family network, job security, and time to do a decent job???? Take a long hard look at these issues before you get wound up with emotions and what you think are hormonal urges. Parenting takes commitment.

Answer 6

find a a sperm donor...most men won't do this because you can trap them into paying child support. adopt or go to a sperm bank
Find a man and get married....you can raise a child on your own, but it is always nicer to have a loving family.

Answer 7

are u willing to raise a baby, whose father u dunt know...if u are, than go to a sperm donor, or a random night out...but if u are not, than wait until u meet someone who u are willng to have a baby with

Answer 8

You need to make sure that you can raise a child on your own.

You could also go the adoption route.

Everyone else will probably tell you go have unprotected sex.

Answer 9

just find a man.. have a relationship and then POW 9 months later u will regret saying that!

Answer 10

Get yourself over here ishy, I drink Guinness and you know what they say. Guinness makes bonny babies.