i have a boyfriend that i love very much but i have a really really close guy friend and he just told me that he loved me. i really dont know what to do with my friend!! i dont want ot hurt him at all but i dont want to break up with my boyfriend!!
2007-06-01 14:16:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is like and izzy,kelly,and geroge off of Greys Anantonys,well i do ot know personlly know what to do but i hope that it all goes well for you.and you are geroge well i hope that you pick the choice that is best for you.try asking yourself like which one do you like more and are h appier with then that is your choice.i do not know how you are not going to hurt ur bf either way it will hurt them both and maybe even you.
2007-06-01 14:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah Simpson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I've through the same situation!! Ok what you do is this...ask your "friend" if he knows that you have a boyfriend..if he says yes then be like "well i love him very much ya know but if we were to ever break up i'll have you in my mind' but if he says no then tell him VERY sweetly look i have a boyfriend but i think your a great guy too...then make up something! anything!! change the subject if you have to...lol just do both very sweetly so that he doesnt get the wrong idea! but then tell "i love you to..but in a very friendly way" if you want to!! good luck!!
2007-06-01 21:24:02 · answer #2 · answered by Le-Le 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how old you both are but it's always best to be open and honest with him. If you like him as a good friend, then tell him you already have a serious boyfriend and you're flattered that he's interested, but you are not. good luck
2007-06-01 21:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by granny4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay so then if u dont wanna break up wit your boyfrend i think u should tell your frend that u have a boyfrend and u love him very much and wouldnt dare 2 mess with his heart, and that u think that u & your frend should just stay that way becuz u consider him more as a brother. =)
** you should try not to say it in a ride or nasty manner and more politely and considerable, to where you dont hurt him as much**
2007-06-01 21:31:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, i am a guy
you have to ask yourself this one question
Is breaking up with a boy worth going out with a friend. Personally, i would sit your friend down and talk with him. say that you only wanna be friends and that you have been friends for a while. never say "i dont want anything to happen to our friendship" bc guys hate that, specially me. then you have to say to yourself, "who do i like more" you probably have a lot in common with your friend, but it is probably better to stay with the other guy. thats my advice. hope it helps
2007-06-01 21:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by shadowscott2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you look like your name, there will be lots of "friends" who "love" you. Be true to your boyfriend and tell everyone else that you are committed. When you are done with that relationship, then be open to others.
The other guys will respect you for this and wait. ;)
2007-06-01 21:21:16 · answer #6 · answered by ignoramus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trully love your boyfriend then tell your friend that. Don't feel bad for feelings you can't control. If he can't accept that then he is not worthy of being your friend.
2007-06-01 21:21:34 · answer #7 · answered by AAA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple.. tell your friend, "I have a boyfriend, who i love very much"
2007-06-01 21:22:38 · answer #8 · answered by k8r9i8s8ti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...you love your boyfriend!
2007-06-01 21:22:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i dont really care.........
2007-06-01 21:19:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋