My boyfriend isn't passing in school right now, so he's going back to Puerto rico.He promised me we would still be together, and in 3 years, when he's 18, He will come back and wait for me to finish school [i'm 2 years younger than him],So How often have these long-distance relationships work out?How can I keep in touch?
2007-06-01 12:37:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LMAO, Nadi, I understand love at such a young age, others might, but nevertheless....you said blissfull, I can agree with that...but explain your definition of innocents, please?LOL.
2007-06-01 12:56:23 · update #1
You are 15 now? Sometimes it can work. I was in one for close to four years my ex was in the marine corps and was stationed in another country and that was hard. We did it alot by letters, emails even phone calls. The phone calls sucked because of the time difference but I was willing to wake up at any time to talk to him.
Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't. Not trying to be negative. But communication is the key here.
2007-06-01 12:42:56 · answer #1 · answered by Linds 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At your age, long distance or not, most relationships don't work out. If you were meant to be together, you'll be together again eventually. So if he's 18 in 3 years, he must be 15, and if you're 2 years younger, then you are 13. I think you should just enjoy your youth as much as possible - you are far to young to be thinking about marriage.
2007-06-01 19:41:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to admit, long-distance relationships are tough. Very challenging. Most have not lasted, but some do. I think as long you've got a strong foundation already, the chances are bigger that it will endure. And even if it does not, if you both want it to work out, it will. Just keep communicating, think up of creative ways to keep in touch. If its meant to be, it will be. Good luck!
2007-06-01 19:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by mgirl88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
education is number one
judging someone based on education isn't always right
in America (U.S. and Canada) it's hard to believe that you are truly in love at such a young age
long relationships almost never work out.
"relationship" means you need to relate somehow
without a "close relationship" you cannot have a "love relationship"
"when" he comes back..make sure his education from Puerto Rico gives him a job here....if you still want a future with him.
But I believe that you should decide when you're old enough (over 18).
2007-06-01 19:41:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense but it's very unlike the two of you will remain a couple with the distance and the duration of time until you'll see each other again.
Mostlikely you will both move on with your lives and go where your goals and dreams lead you. And that won't be in the same direction.
2007-06-01 19:41:44 · answer #5 · answered by beanie_babymama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depend on you and your boyfriend. Long-distance relationship need a lot of thrust in both side.. you just email to him, instant text messages, or call... but don't cheat on him and make sure that him also don't cheat on you.... thrust and conversation is needed in relationship. if you love him very much, long-distance relationship is not a problems. but my friend did the same thing when she was your age, now she had two more boyfriend in her side.... she always cry because she thinking her long-distance boyfriend cheat on her and she cannot concentrate on her study.that's why she have two more boyfriend she have been with that boy for 3 years and half..... make a choice.... it depends on you.....
2007-06-01 19:48:28 · answer #6 · answered by pretty girl make grave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i remember how much i was in love with my boyfriend when i was your age! It was blissful and innocent! i thought we would be together. forever turned out to be more like 5 years.anyway, at your age, though you dont want to hear it, you will move on. maybe not forever, but someday. and if it was meant to be, you will find each other again. but for now, just enjoy each other while your together. and dont put pressure or expectations on a long distance relationship in seperate countries nontheless.
2007-06-01 19:44:23 · answer #7 · answered by nadi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really love him, then it should work out. but thats a long time and a long distance. can u stand not seeing anyone for 2 years? your choice!!!
2007-06-01 19:42:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They never work out, one of you will end up with a broken heart.
Three years is forever at your age, one of you will be with someone new within six months.
2007-06-01 19:40:59 · answer #9 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yall are very young. i don't see that working out sweetheart. find a nice boy that lives closer to home.
2007-06-01 19:42:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋