Do men enjoy having their girlfriend/wife dominating them during sex? How often and how far will you go?
2007-06-01 12:30:00 · 17 answers · asked by DiNozzo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it's great sometimes to just relax and put my trust in her, but I wouldn't want it that way all the time because I'd miss feeling in control. How far would I go? Well I guess I'd be open to all sorts of possibilities, but I draw the line at S&M because pain really isn't a turn-on for me.
2007-06-01 12:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In college I had a Human Sexuality course and this question was brought up. A lot of the guys said it was a big turn on when the woman was dominant during sex because there is so much pressure on the guy making the move or initiating sex.
I can see problems if both the man and woman are dominating, but could make for some interesting/feisty sex.
2007-06-01 12:33:15 · answer #2 · answered by hushprelude 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the man. It also depends on how good at being dominant the woman is. If the woman enjoys being dominant, and it's a real turn on for her, the guy's most likely enjoying himself.
If the woman really gets off on being dominant, she should find a guy who loves to be submissive. They're all over the place. You just have to be open about your preferences before you get into bed.
2007-06-01 12:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by mom2b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, on occasion I find it incredibly hot. A steady diet however may be a problem. On occasion, a woman taking charge and even assuming the male role in sexual acts is very stimulating. Just be sure the time and mood is right and your with a sexual man not afraid to experiment.
2007-06-01 12:35:25 · answer #4 · answered by Bob O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like everything in the bedroom--it can be great fun if the two people care about each other and trust each other. if you are bringing alot of baggage to the relationship--or if you are insecure, this can cause problems. a good couple can try it--and decide whether they liked it or not. i know how exciting it can be to have the woman take control--kind of raw and animalish--mmm, that's a good thing. just be free--and very important--also feel free to express a dislike for things.
2007-06-01 12:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by quiet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least half the point of having sex is for your partner to enjoy herself. If she get's off on dominating me.....then spank my bottom and call me worthless.....how far would I go?........" To infinity and beyond."
2007-06-01 12:36:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Criss,
Come get some, MMMMMMM... lol sorry but I think it is sexy as hell. Don't get me wrong I love taking control too but when a woman does it she means some serious business and guys should shut up and enjoy the ride. Thanks for that question hon... : )
2007-06-01 12:33:30 · answer #7 · answered by Selvaggio 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you mean being aggressive then yes, all guys like that. However if you mean dominate like in S&M, well that I wouldn't know. Otherwise your question doesn't make sense as a woman can not phyically dominate a man....think about it logically.
2007-06-01 12:34:35 · answer #8 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Once in a while would be fine but I would prefer to be "in charge".
I would let her take it up to the point of causing physical harm.
2007-06-01 12:33:08 · answer #9 · answered by Matt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the guy , what he likes and how he likes it. Ask if he wants controll or wants you to take over for a change.
2007-06-01 12:34:10 · answer #10 · answered by skeeter195848 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋