My heart says stay, My brain says leave!
Who do I trust?
I'm so used to her/she is so untrusting!
weve done so much together and I want to do more/We cant get through a flocking week without a war!
Her dad and brother is so cool and Ive even grown fond of her daughter!/She takes me completely for granted!
What the aaich-eee-el-el should I do?
2007-06-01 09:08:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And why kill yourself becuase she takes you for granted? That will do no good. You want her to understand, just leave. Don't feel afraid to be alone for a little, you'll be fine!
What you feel is terror of being by yourself, and maybe that is what you need. Spend a little time with you.
2007-06-01 09:14:04 · answer #1 · answered by xavier_del_rio 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SUICIDE????? lol....dude? how old are you?
If you were a part of my family or friend then you'd be in so much trouble. Life seemed to suck because you are missing/overlooking all the good parts to it.
Let me tell you a joke and I think you'll get my point.
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One day a really wise guy saw a shabbily dressed man crying sitting on a park bench. The wise man asked "Whats wrong?" and the shabbily dressed man goes " My life is pointless, no one understands me. I took all the money I had, which is very little, left my house in search for happiness, but I could not find any, I think my life has nothing to offer, so now I am crying because I don't know what to do."
So the wise man felt really bad, and all of a sudden he had a wicked idea. He asked the dude, "Is the money in that bag", pointing at the shabby bag beside him and the man nodded. So the wise man stood up, grabbed the bag and start running. Our crying friend followed him but could not catch him, after an hour of searching he returned to the park, devistated. Then he saw that the bag was on the bench. He was overjoyed and laughed and grabbed the bag, found everything was okay.
Then the wise man appeared again. Smiled and said "The truely good things in life are already with us."
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I dont want to sound like a preacher, but dude...open your eyes. Life's awesome
2007-06-01 09:20:51 · answer #2 · answered by lool 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When suicide comes to mind, you need to sit and talk to someone who can trust in. A family member and good friend.
And seek a councelor who can see why you feel the way you do. Sometimes it's something of stress you are going through but haven't really pinpointed the problem.
So a councelor will help seek the problem and solve it before it gets you deeper into a suicidal state.
Suicide is never the answer to anything.
2007-06-01 09:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by BettyBoopGirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you're gonna blow a gasket!
Breathe. Chill. Think.
What is really going on here? And ofcourse suicide will not solve anything accept who's going to get your PS3 when you're gone.
If she doesn't trust you, and you're with her mainly because you're used to her....this does not make for a successful relationship.
Its time to cut your losses and move on. Dude, it is not gonna be easy...but you have to do it. Take that first step and it will keep getting better.
You can diplomatically find ways to still befriend her family, but the relationship part of your friendship sounds like it needs a timeout.
Good luck!
2007-06-01 09:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Suicide does not help to make decisions. I'm sure you mentioned it, just to express how upset and angry you are. In this case, follow your brains. Leave her. Lack of confidence, jealousy, are the most destructive feelings in a couple. Sooner or later, you won't stand it any more. Your hart will say what your brains are saying. So, don't let the blood get to the river. Go now.
2007-06-01 09:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just skip, bro....suicide is and never will be the answer. I can only assume that you are a younger guy and have too much ahead of you. You can always find another girl with a cool family.
2007-06-01 09:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by Joey 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are thinking of committing suicide over a girl? Leave her and run like the wind. Suicide is a VERY selfish thing. Don't think that your life is over because your relationship is failing. How old are you?
2007-06-01 09:11:53 · answer #7 · answered by cr@c@l@c@j@clynn 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Help you decide what? I so hope you call a suicide hotline or instead, walk into a hospital ER and tell them you are feeling desparate. Suicide answers nothing, nothing at all..
Please get some help and NOW
2007-06-01 09:13:10 · answer #8 · answered by troseilnana 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NEVER SUICIDE. Whoever this is taking you for granted will come to her senses. Suicide never helps. You just die and leave all who love you behind. So DONT.
2007-06-01 09:14:03 · answer #9 · answered by ღJenniferღ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a break and step away from her. During the break, ask yourself again. It is sometimes hard to see when you are right in the middle of it.
2007-06-01 09:12:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋