How far along are they at the age of 23??
2007-06-01 08:53:47 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*details!* emotionally, not physically...please be serious! I'm serious....
2007-06-01 08:57:12 · update #1
Being "real"...I'm 38 and I cannot say I matured until about 35..but I'm also a single Dad. But "real" mature it's 35. It's a fact!! At this age we are in tune with who we are and what we want(for sure) and we also know how to keep our mouth shut and when to open it as well. We also know how to be tender, and tough when need be. We also take pride in making a woman "feel" like a woman. (If you know what I mean)
2007-06-01 09:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
That's a tough question. All men are different. I got married at 19 and had my first daughter at 20. I have 3 kids now, 2 girls and 1 boy, and have been married 28 years. I met my wife in May and married her in August, 1979. I matured immediately, but I have seen many others that just can't do it. Having kids should wake you up, but that is not always true these days. I've never been to war, but I'd have to say that would make a man out of you. Maybe you should look for a veteran.
2007-06-01 09:04:03 · answer #2 · answered by JOSEPH N 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There is no concrete age to determine a person's maturity, as I'm sure you've found out over the years. I've known some mature men at 18, and I've met some immature men at 38.
But all things considered, I would say if a guy isn't mature (by society standards) by the age of 23, then he ain't gonna be mature by 33, and will expect everything to be handed to him, and everyone to wait on him.
I'm sure with your woman's intuition you will know how this guy will be in the future by his behavior now.
2007-06-01 08:59:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Physically I'd say he's at his peak. But mentally and emotionally, he's generally still a kid at 23. At age 30 is usually when they start to mature - or later for some.
2007-06-01 08:59:01 · answer #4 · answered by Tammy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Judging from the guys I have met, observed and dated, men are still children at 23, with the exception of a few perhaps who might be more mature due to circumstances. Most people say they are about 10 years behind women. Give it time.
2007-06-01 08:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It has nothing to do with how old the person is. Different people mature at different rates. It has more to do with what each person has gone through. A person who has had to accept responsibility at a younger age, has been put in more demanding life situations, will usually naturally be more mature.
But seriously? Men never fully mature. Never.
2007-06-01 09:01:27 · answer #6 · answered by Ch4plain 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men will never fully mature. They will always be at least a year or two behind. But that's fine it keeps the spark going just as long as the man isn't 35 years old acting as if he is 25 years old. Then again you have very few that act as if their 5 years their senior.
2007-06-01 08:58:56 · answer #7 · answered by The Misses 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Pretty much fully mature, although they say you don't technically stop growing until around 25, of course numbers are unique for every unique person. Maturity and age are two seperate issues. There are men and women 40+ that aern't mature and boys and girls at 18 that are.
2007-06-01 08:56:49 · answer #8 · answered by jay k 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never to tell the truth. Maturity is all in the eye of the beholder. Even though I am 30 and responsible some say I am immature because I play video games. It's really up to you and what you think of that person.
2007-06-01 09:00:27 · answer #9 · answered by UPGRAYEDD 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the guy and his circumstances. Some guys can be fully mature at 17...others never make it there at all. However, generally I'd say around 25.
2007-06-01 08:57:22 · answer #10 · answered by colorguy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋