I've been hanging out with a good friend lately and a few times her guy friend came with us. Turns out he likes me and I don't like him...
My friend just went on vacation but he keeps calling me because he wants to hang out. I don't want to hang out with just him, it was fine when he was there while I was with other people but I don't want to make him think I like him.
So, is there anything I can do to make him stop? I feel bad that I don't like him and he wants to see me/call me so much. It's getting really annoying and I haven't answered his calls today.
What should I say when he calls? I feel like I'm stuck.
2007-06-01 08:48:18 · 12 answers · asked by :] 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What do you mean by tell him the truth...
I don't want to just be like ' well i don't like you in that way' because i'm thinking he'll probably just say he wants to be friends in order to hang out.
2007-06-01 08:52:21 · update #1
I know what you mean...because he's a nice guy you dont want to look like the bad guy by telling him the truth and break his heart.
I used to not answer the phone or pick up and explain to them that I have been really busy and dont have the time to talk. Family, friends, personal female reasons. Within time they slowly get over you.
2007-06-01 08:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him that he's a great guy but you don't want to feel uncomfortable when you hang out, and just the two of you will make you feel uncomfortable right? so when your friend gets back tell her to talk to her boyfriend about him calling you and find out the truth from him. it's not your fault, you didn't come on to him, and you shouldn't be blamed for it. if you do then she wasn't a good friend in the first place.
2007-06-01 15:53:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why the H would you do that to your friend while shes gone on vacation . Heres what your going to do ! The next time he calls you tell him what you think of a guy that would cheat on his gf while shes gone . Tell him you value your friendship and wont talk to him when shes gone . Oh and if he trys to call again tell him you have him recorded and will tell her . I think the first part will be enough so you will be in the clear and make a good impression on your friend to when she finds out .
2007-06-01 15:53:28 · answer #3 · answered by wishingstar5555 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him that he is not your type and not just be like your ugly or just keep being mean to him cause you never know what people will do if they like you a lot, let him know how you feel when he call you so much and he may slow it down.
2007-06-01 15:55:24 · answer #4 · answered by brownie123 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep telling him you already have other plans. He'll get the message.
2007-06-01 15:50:53 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's better to be honest with him. Tell him that you're not ready for a relationship and you think he deserves someone who likes him back in return.
2007-06-01 15:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by GucciGirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth! He is a guy, he will get over it.
2007-06-01 15:51:16 · answer #7 · answered by heatseaker 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe you should give him a chance, you never know who he truely can be until you give it a swing...
don't let him down gentally until you know for sure that it will absolutely NOT work
2007-06-01 15:52:18 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Mystery 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
say how you really feel about him he'll understand
2007-06-01 15:53:15 · answer #9 · answered by giggleswelcome 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just have a casual convo. and if he asks if you'll go out with him or something hurry and run to mexico
2007-06-01 15:52:55 · answer #10 · answered by football_girl_4evr 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋