My bf and I have been friends for a long time and I like her a lot as more than just a friend. We do almost everything together and I want to let her know. How do I tell her because I also don't want to lose her as a friend too?
2007-06-01 08:47:59 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just sit her down and like watch a movie that has 2 women as the stars and ask her could she ever do this? and if she is curious tell her you are too and would she be willing and sometimes the bestest female friend is the one to be curious with cause you know no one else knows but you two....
2007-06-01 08:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT!
I read another post from a guy who did what you're thinking of, and it was disasterous. Check the link below.
What I suggest you do is be more subtle about it. Make a move without telling her you like her. That way if she does not reciprocate, you can go back to being friends, and maybe try again later.
I'm not saying you should try to jump her or anything, but be more playful. Try putting your arm around her like a date would, and maybe bring up the conversation about hooking up as a joke or hypothetical question.
DOn't ruin a good friendship if you're not sure she likes you too.
2007-06-01 15:54:46 · answer #2 · answered by stn1225 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If y ou dont know wether she like girls as more then friends, say sooo i have a question. Would you ever date another girl, a friend of mine wanted to know. If she says yes then tell her, i know we have been best friends for a long time but my feelings for you have grown stronger and i like you as more than just a friend, would you take it a step further with me? and then go from there. email me at andrew_of_spades@yahoo.com and let me know how you made out .
2007-06-01 15:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by Andrew_of_spades 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she wants to go swimming. Then wade out into the water, say, "Look, I think I might like you the way that Michael Bolton guy was talking about in that song 'When a Man Loves a Woman.' Are you at all interested in me?"
If she says yes, great. If she says no, at least you'll be out in the water....so hold her head until she says yes or...
2007-06-01 18:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could just tell her.. but then if things don't work out romantically with her then you will probably lose her as a friend. What is more important? Good luck.
2007-06-01 15:52:23 · answer #5 · answered by Dee S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but I would sure like to be a fly on the wall when you drop that bomb. But if she says "ok" then I want to be able to turn back into a man real fast!
2007-06-01 15:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by booger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start acting like you are a couple.
take her out on a date, put your arms around her, rock her world, put yourself in a "romantic light". Act more as a lover than a friend.
and then make a move.
ps: if she starts acting really uncomfortable when you do that, she'll either make it clear to you, or distance herself.
If she doesn't and seems to enjoy this new... light. busta move!
the advantage of that is you can measure her attraction to you.. in a way?
2007-06-01 15:54:00 · answer #7 · answered by chocolateknight69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just tell her, Don't wait 14 years like I did
2007-06-01 15:52:33 · answer #8 · answered by cones2210 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one of those moments where you've got to throw all your chips on the table and go for it. It's all or nothing, you've got to tell her straight up.
2007-06-01 15:52:31 · answer #9 · answered by Niko? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jackpot bring her to my house.... get her drunk and tell her u wanna practice making out. itll work itself out...ill just videotape for pointers
2007-06-01 15:52:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋