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is there anyway i can...like not on my own...but like idk!!!
i dont want to be with my parents anymore (not that i am with them with them EWWW)
but like is there an organization or something???

2007-06-01 08:47:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Etiquette

14 answers

Oh like i'm trin to do....trin to be "independent" u mean to say isnt it??

if ur real good at looks(which i think ur) become a celeb.....increase ur singing/acting skills and all.

2007-06-01 16:42:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Have you really thought this through?
You are 14 going on 15, you can't get a job that would pay enough for you to survive on your own, you still need to finish H.S. You'd need enough money to pay rent, grocery shop, transportation to and from work-the list goes on. If you really think about this, you'll realize you can't afford to leave nor are you emotionally mature enough to. Life is hard as an adult. You should appreciate the time you have now. Being an adult isn't all fun and games.
Back when I was in H.S. a friend of mine got legally emancipated from her mother at 16 or 17 yrs old (her parents were divorced, father resided in Puerto Rico) and her mother was not only physically but verbally abusive. She was legally considered an adult by the state because her mother was very abusive but ended up living with another friend and her family until she could afford her own place.
Why do you want to move out being so young? Is it really that bad at home? If your parents are not abusing you and you are just sick of the rules, that is no reason to move out and you would not be able to legal be emancipated from them.
Have you ever considered talking to them? You'll just have to get used to it until you're 18. But I have a feeling things may not be so bad. Your parents love and care for you and are only looking after you.
Remember that they were once teenagers too.

2007-06-01 16:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by (no subject) 4 · 2 0

Legally you have to wait until you take your GED, and even then manytimes until you are 18. My best friend left home (with her parents blessing) when she was 17, moved to LA. Did the scene and is now one of the most conservative adults I know. LOL

Anything you do, will require effort on your part. And anything you do will be difficult and good. There is no easy road, and all of them require that you begin to assume the responsibilities of a young woman.

Anyway, last week we had a track meet at our school and there were two brothers there, and they were from Florida, we are in N. California. They moved out, rather they took initiative found a boarding school and out the came and said they love it here. The school they are in is ANADA, in Nevada County (i think). I don't know if they have scholarships or anything else, and you will have to get parental permission. So to get that, you have to know how to talk to your parents.

Otherwise, this is your chance, to make the best of a difficult situation.

Good luck
and remember:
there is a story where in wise men are charged with death to come up with an answer that will answer all questions, and the answer was "THIS TOO, SHALL PASS."

2007-06-01 16:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Look at all the trouble your parents go through to support you. There is no way you could afford to even partially pay for your own expenses and there aren't any organizations that could help you. You should respect the fact that your parents pay for ALL your things. Learn to deal with them and appreciate the shelter, clothes, all your little knick-knacks, and food on the table that they've provided for you. Start saving your money now, and by time you're eighteen, if you still want to move out, you'll be more than prepared. For now, be thankful your parents do everything for you. I know they can be annoying and frustrating, but you have to put up with it until you're eighteen, or as long as you want decide to live with them. You'll grow out of this little phase sooner or later.

2007-06-01 16:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by Kayla D. 2 · 0 0

Every other fifteen year old wants to move out in particular females (speaking from experience.) Unless you are in an abusive household (as I was physical and emotional) you are stuck unless you get an attorney to represent you to become emancipated AND the courts only grant these rare requests under circumstances as I was under AND you can financially provide for yourself, and you show a certain maturity level beyond your 15 years. Additionally, someone is willing to supervise you. This person ALSO has to be stable financially, etc.... If you want to move out because you feel your parents are too strict it's because they love you and don't want anything to happen to you. I know this isn't what you want to hear, but it's the truth. Want to move out into an organization the only two available would be foster care or a group home for troubled kids. If you think you have problems now you have no idea what you are in for in either of these places.

2007-06-01 15:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5 0

But I think you only 15 years old. As a child you didn't have experience to live youself. So it is very difficult to move out youself. The society is too dangerous to live youself, in order to protect you ,you can't move out.
May be my mind is not Independent enough. But I hope you will live happy all the time.

2007-06-02 07:11:39 · answer #6 · answered by happy 1 · 0 0

There have been and will continue to be, many, many, many issues for minors and parents to address. Moving out will NOT solve all the problems. Parents are doing the best they can in this time and in this space.

You, hopefully, have many years to be an adult!!!

Do everything you can to get the challenges worked out!!!

STAY HOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Karen

K

2007-06-01 16:36:18 · answer #7 · answered by Devon 6 · 0 0

you and every other 15 year old kid in the world. Be grateful that you have parents who give a hoot about you, instead of parents who don't care what you do.

2007-06-01 16:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by karma 7 · 0 0

Yeah, wait 3 years. By then you'll be over it. It's just a thing you go through,

2007-06-01 15:55:43 · answer #9 · answered by Big Mike T. 2 · 2 0

It's a stage you're going through. All teenagers are like that.

Appreciate the free rent while you can... it all goes downhill when you're on your own.

2007-06-01 16:06:34 · answer #10 · answered by gopher646 6 · 3 0

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