Well I been going out with my bf for about 10 months and I don't think I feel the same way as I did before. I tried breaking up with him, but he always wants to get back together with me; I always end up taking him back. What should I do?
2007-06-01 08:42:35 · 15 answers · asked by drummergirl7777 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you aren't happy in the relationship, then don't take him back. I know its hard because you don't want to break his heart, but if he really cares about you, he'll understand, and would just want you to be happy. Just let him go gently, and stay away for awhile, it'll be hard, but eventually he will get over it. Its your life, you have to sometimes do things for yourself in order for it to be a happy life.
2007-06-01 08:47:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ordinarily, I would say that ambivalence is a sign of maturity. In this case, it sounds more like indecision.
Do you really want to have a long term relationship with someone who bulldozes over your desires?
John, I'm serious. I think that we both need to see other people. I'm not happy with the way this is going. I need to move in another direction. You can call me back in six months and see where we are at that point. I have talked to my friends about this, and they agree that I should be firm with you. I'm just not into you that much.
Put it in writing if you don't think that you can say it. And be prepared to back it up with a court order.
2007-06-01 15:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being loved is Rare luck and More sacred than Loving somebody.
My suggestion is to Please Re-consider the deciscion of Breking -up with him. He may one of the Greatest guys that a gurl can dream of. He showed his quality of compromising for you and not leaving you even when u tried to break-up.
Please rethink and decide. Best of luck.
2007-06-01 16:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by India Invents 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the population of the world is over 3 billion, 1/2 are male, move on to next guy, and leave the past in the past.
2007-06-01 15:46:11 · answer #4 · answered by Patrick S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a spine and when you break up, let that be that. It's your life...make what you want out of it. Why be with someone you don't want to be with? You're wasting your time and his.
2007-06-01 15:49:59 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find out why your feeling like that and tell him about it. if tries to call you and email , just ignore it or block him. but you know this. i think you want to come back to him. so look to yourself to find out why you feel like this and what you can do to fix it.
2007-06-01 15:47:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit leading him on, break it with him and thats it. quit taking him back before you really end up hurting yourself or him.
2007-06-01 15:46:13 · answer #7 · answered by crissy c 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Grow some stones
2007-06-01 15:44:35 · answer #8 · answered by stn1225 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I really think you shouldn't go out with him if you dont like him...
use a phrase like...
i think we should be friends..
dont let him pull you back...
2007-06-01 15:47:17 · answer #9 · answered by machella1614 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
break up with him and u gotta be serious and tough while u saying this to him but not to the point where you'll make him cry.
2007-06-01 15:46:21 · answer #10 · answered by anonymous 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋