She asked me this and what I like in a girl, how and when I want to get married, how many kids I want to have, etc. This was a friendship quiz too!
2007-06-01 06:28:28 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she wants to be more than friends!
The other questions sound like normal relationship-type questions.
As for the masturbation question, if it bothered you, tell her it is none of her business. She probably wanted a thrill, or to be a little frisky!
2007-06-01 06:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by Matt 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there isn't an easy answer. While this may not be something as bad or serious as heroin, cocaine, or smoking, its still an addiction. When you masturbate there is a whole whack of chemicals released in your brain causing you to feel emotionally different, and even changes your though patterns. The general way to stop doing something... suck it up and just stop. Chances are that God would be more disappointed with your lack of willpower than the actual behaviour itself (just based on my knowledge of theology, not religious myself). Some people believe that you can't just stop a bad Habit, you have to replace it with something else. While I don't think this is the best theory (as you become dependant on some other sort of behaviour and that is not healthy either), it may be worth a try. When you get the urge, do something else you enjoy. Reward your good behaviour with something that will make you feel good. There are a couple of chemical compounds that produce the same "release" in the brain. One is cocaine (not a good idea), the other is chocolate. Its important to recognize that its not the act itself your looking to do, its the payoff in the end. Perhaps if you substitute with chocolate you can eliminate the behaviour and go strait to the reward process in the brain. However, you may find that you suddenly require chocolate more often, and have cravings for it. This may or may not be a problem for you. Alternativly, Achievement is an occourance that produces similar result and great satisfaction. Perhaps you could turn some of this energy in to a focus on doing something to improve your life in some way. Maybe learn to play an instrument, or some other hobby with your hands. Fair warning, I have no medical training, so feel free to look in to some of these ideas yourself. I do have some first hand experience with addiction and behaviour modification though. Hope this helps, and good luck.
2016-05-18 21:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by donald 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you and doesn't exactly know what you are into. Some guys are freaky(sexually), some guys are more personal and intimate ( marriage and kids), she doesn't know what you like she's trying to figure you out so she can talk about the things you like and get to know you more so maybe you can become closer than friends. It's either that or she's just a weird friend. But the probability is that she likes you and doesn't know how to get it across so she's trying to find your intrests by asking all of these weird questions.
2007-06-01 06:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by runwaydiva1202 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls ask dumb questions. I dont think that it relevant if you are just friends but if you have that kind of friendship later you find out things about your friends. I have a a few male friends that I made when I was active duty and we talked about that kind of stuff but it was only because we were stuck on a ship for months and was bored out of our minds.
2007-06-01 06:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't know I don't like knowing that kida of thing about my friends until I know them then my life is an open book.If they are a good friend they should feel comfortable enough to bring up that kind of information on their own. So if you feel uncomfortable tell the girl she will feel better that you said something.
2007-06-01 06:34:12 · answer #5 · answered by jadedangelgirl2002 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a very strange quiz to me. I'd be walking....no running in the opposite direction.
2007-06-01 06:32:34 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she has a little bit of a crush on you which has got to be based on mostly looks because she dosnet even know you yet. So, at least you know, your cute.
I wouldnt have these questions on my "friendship quiz" and I would assume he did masterbate.
2007-06-01 06:32:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
usually girls ask those kind of questions for 3 reasons:
1. they're nosey and just need to know everything.
2. she's scoping u out for a friend of her's and trying to get the goods on you to relay them to someone else. .or...
3. she's got something for you and wants to know all that information for herself.
opposite gendered friends don't usually ask those things of each other until they've known each other for sometime. like the options above i gave u, its probably one of those reasons.
2007-06-01 06:38:30 · answer #8 · answered by Di 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously she is trying to get to know you and she seems to want to be more then friends...and if she asked if you masturbate you should just said yes i do it 4-10 times a week so i can make sure i stay regular....all guys masturbate...if you don't you should its a great stress relief...
2007-06-01 06:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I just assume that all the guys I know do it so I never asked and actually wouldn't want to ask that anyway.
2007-06-01 06:33:16 · answer #10 · answered by LadyD1019 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋