what do you think about women who are self effiecent, can take care of them selves, do you find that this is not good because you cant protect her or do you like not haveing to take care of her.
2007-06-01 06:19:15 · 2 answers · asked by steph 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey Steph,
I think that its good for a woman to have a level of being self-efficent and being able to take care of themselves, but if they want to be a partner in a realtionship, especially a marriage, then they have to also be able to sacrifce, compromise and depend on someone besides themselves at times as well. I like strong women and find the traits you mention as being very attractive, but I've also had challenges in a few relationships with women who were so self-efficent that they never need help with anything... and as a previous poster said, men have it coded into their dna to be protective of women... going back to our days in caves hunting.
Hope that give you some prespective,
Dan
2007-06-01 08:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by Dan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are naturally protective of their girls....but if he can do it herself its a good thing...we'll be there when she needs us
2007-06-01 13:22:43 · answer #2 · answered by corkydw89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋