OK.Well this guy I sorta like,I liked him alot bofore he was a jerk to me.I was laying on the couch,and he come over there with me and started making move's on me and tried to kiss me the deal is ive never been kissed!!! omg! im only 14 and I feel like a late bloomer cause everybody else has been kissed.But that's not what's bothering me,it's why doe's my whole body overcome with fear and butterflies? Is it cause I like him or it's cause ive never been kissed or is it the fact he want's to have sex and Im not ready (and I want to wait till im married) Thanks so much for your answers and God bless.
2007-06-01 04:43:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pets ➔ Dogs
AND IM SORRY for posting this in the wrong section!
2007-06-01 05:06:07 · update #1
WTF is this? you are in the wrong section. unless you are calling that guy a dog. idk why this is in the section.
2007-06-01 04:46:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The butterflies and fear come because you really like him and a little of the fact that its the first time it has happened. It will still happened all your life even if its with a partner that you have been with for a long time! With regards to what you should do thats up to you but you have to make sure that he or anyone else dosn't make you do anything that you don't want to or that you feel uncomfortable with. Having respect for yourselves is the most important thing and if he is not willing to accept things then as much as this might hurt he is not worth it! Hope that helps. x
2007-06-01 11:49:12 · answer #2 · answered by Tammi H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think you're in the wrong section hun HOWEVER I have family that's about your age. I'd string up my cousins if I found out they were making out w/ some boy. I don't care how you feel about him.
Maintain respect for yourself!! You're 14 honey, go out and live for YOU. Learn, grow, have fun w/ your friends. Don't worry about boys. They'll bring you plenty of trouble and heartache later. Nows the time to enjoy the freedom of being young.
Tell this guy that yea.. it was fun, and I might have liked, but I'm better than this, and if you can't handle me, then I'm better than YOU.
Be strong honey. In a few years, you won't even remember his name! And if you love and RESPECT your parents, imagine what they would think. How would you feel if they found this out?
You're not a late bloomer and you really shouldn't be concerned what others think (except your family because they will love you regardless). Just worry about yourself. REAL friends won't make you feel bad for any decision you make.
NO MORE KISSING!
2007-06-01 11:53:36 · answer #3 · answered by sillybuttmunky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda of a weird section to list this question under, but anyway...
Don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable or let someone(i.e. this guy) talk you into doing something you don't want to do. You mention he was a jerk to you. It could be just that he is immature and doesn't know how to let you know he likes you too, or maybe he really is a jerk and figures that since you like him he might as well see how far you will go with him. Take your time, go slow. You'll know when it feels right.
2007-06-01 11:48:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry from what you say your clearly nervious. take your time. your 14 years old. dont even think about sex at the moment as for a kiss and a chuddle well take it slow. 14 isnt old, your not a late bloomer, most 14 year olds clarm they've done this and that, dont listen most if not all lie, because they think its cool. you have nothing to prove. be yourself. if your not ready, your not ready. it will come naturally one day. if the guy understands that and respects that keep him if he doesn't lose him. you dont have to do anything you dont want to do.the girls whom go sluty are never remember for anything other than they was a slut- do you want to be remember for the wrong reasons?nope, i thought not.guys will have more respect for you, if you respect yourself.if they dont respect your thoughts then they dont respect you, or your feelings. they just want one thing. stay away if you dont want what they want. they try lots of ways to get what they want. just say NO.
2007-06-01 11:57:01 · answer #5 · answered by robm1089 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i set a goal that i didnt wanna be kissed til i was sixteen and thats reasonable and all my close guy friends understood that so they would kiss my hand or cheek something cute and i was well respected and now that i've been kissed it was def. worth waiting for i get butterflies everytime and its so sweet cause i didnt waste em; but honey SEX is after marriage, God Bless<><
2007-06-01 11:48:21 · answer #6 · answered by sincerely sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm.. And Why Is This In The Dog Section?
2007-06-01 11:49:07 · answer #7 · answered by funkymunky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're nervous & scared- that's the butterfiles feeling. Even if you do like him, be completely honest with him- tell him he is not going to get sex from you, if he is a decent person, he will respect you. And if he doesn't like it, he is not worth your time.
2007-06-01 11:59:05 · answer #8 · answered by Jacqueline M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i am kinda coufuserd why is this in the dog section. oh and for the Q just go with what you think is right
2007-06-01 11:47:24 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of the jerk if he will not respect your feelings and wishes
2007-06-05 05:24:26 · answer #10 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt be with this guy if u think you are not ready
2007-06-01 11:48:24 · answer #11 · answered by Gaby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋