Is it just the ones I go out with......? Probably going to brak up with my g/f.... but feel a real resentment towards women..... I dont think I am going to commit to one for a very long time.....
Sorry I'm having a really bad day.... I need some reasurance that there are some sain, none-grumpy women out there.....
Say something to cheer me up.... =[
2007-06-01 02:31:05 · 12 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a gal that's like one of the guys....and most woman really honestly can't help themselves....hormones.
But your resentment is the inability to forgive any wrong doing, and that in itself is a personal issue you need to deal with.
My issue was I always picked the rude, obnoxious, selfish jerk...but I had to take a long look at myself to see why every guy I fell in love with (not just dated) was like that.
You don't want a ***** for a girlfriend then change the way you think and what you are looking for and you may just find one that isn't.
2007-06-01 02:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most women are bit*ches. I am a woman and can't stand 95% of them. Manipulative liars almost all of them. However, there are a few really cool women out there. They are just hard to find. Same as it is hard for women to find a man who isn't a lying sack of crap. Don't pick women that are high maint...girly girls. Find a woman that can take care of herself but is laid back and easy going. Become friends with someone first and truly get to know them without letting lust get involved. Cause let's face it once sex is involved you get stupid...(that applys to men and women alike). I've been screwed over badly myself recently and I sometimes wonder if I will let anyone get close to me ever again but if you break up with g/f give yourself time to heal and go have some fun. Being single isn't THAT bad if you think about it...and when the time comes and the "right" girl comes along, you'll be ready again. Hope that cheered u up a little.!!!
2007-06-01 09:47:05 · answer #2 · answered by CrazygirlDD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not all women are bitches, really. I am a woman and I will agree that there are alot of them out there. I have some female friends who are downright bitchy to men in general. I believe from what I can tell is usually these women have been mistreated, abused, lied to or cheated on and they become "hardened". They tend to view all men as men who will do the above to them instead of viewing each man as individual. I myself have had the above done to me, but it has not and will not harden me to every man. I fortunately am extremely positive and view each man as a totally different person and do not judge him according to the way the last man treated me. Women who have been abused and lied to need to do some soul searching of their own and figure out why they keep picking those kind of men and when women decide not to be attracted to those kind of men anymore, they will instead a better class of man who will treat them the way they deserve and hopefully the woman will learn to trust that man who probably will never break her heart. But the short of it.....women have been hardened unfortunately by men and they then become bitches which is a shame. The same scenario can be seen in men too though. They can become the same when women have used them as well. Sorry. Don't give up on women as a whole. There truly are some good ones left. They are just harder to find because we don't all put ourselves "out there" in the town, city, etc, for you to find us. Good luck!!
2007-06-01 09:49:19 · answer #3 · answered by nialalha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, hun! Don't be so down about it...we ALL hit slumps...I'm in the same boat with you...I'm really trying HARD to reassure myself that most guys AREN'T jerks...lol
All I can say is to look for red flags and warning signs VERY early on...we don't notice how many things we overlook from the start until we realize that we're with a maniac!...lol
Don't give up...There are still some of us sweet, lovely young ladies out there! :)
2007-06-01 09:43:51 · answer #4 · answered by Prima_Donnassassin! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you're taking a bad situation and extrapolating to the population at large. Kind of unfair to those of us in the population at large. Worse than that, though, it's unfair to you. There are some incredible women out there - kind, smart, compassionate - and one day you'll meet one of them. Thing is, if you have that negative attitude, you may alienate her or you may not even realize how fantastic she is.
Hang in there, Old Sport!
2007-06-01 09:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are some great women out there....you just haven't found the right one yet! When you do, you will fall head over heels in love!! But please don't lump all women together.....just because you have had a bad experience....we are not all like that......but remember you are not supposed to understand us!! lol. Have faith, you will find Mrs right, probably when you least expect it!!
2007-06-01 09:39:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Sir, are an idiot. You cannot lump all women together just because you've had a few bad experiences. From the way you write it sounds like you are deserving of their supposed "b*tchy" behavior.
2007-06-01 09:36:27 · answer #7 · answered by sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as a bad or bit*chy woman. But, on the other hand, there are plenty of undeserving dogs that call themselves men. Look at yourself, its something you are doing. If you feel like it is everyone you date, then you need to open up your eyes and look in the mirror. It is not the women but you.
2007-06-01 09:40:52 · answer #8 · answered by cinnatigg 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
im sain and non grumpy as long as i get enough sleep dont worry we're out here we're just hiding
2007-06-01 09:40:16 · answer #9 · answered by Loved 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women are bitches honest some are just your average nice person! That doesn't mean there aren't some i just avoid them or ***** right back!
2007-06-01 10:45:09 · answer #10 · answered by KittyKat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋