Some guys get with a girl then spend most of their time chasing others, pretending not to be and telling lies about it all. Is it fun for them? Is that WHY they get in a relationship or something, just so they can hurt and laugh at someone who loves them? Why not just tell the truth up front, eg I just want a shag with no strings? Some girls out there want that too, wouldnt it be kinder of them to not mess with people for fun? I'm bewildered about it all!
2007-06-01 02:30:29 · 16 answers · asked by Wonderwoman 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm asking "why guys" cos I'm a staight girl who's never dated another girl! This is a serious question not some attempt to get into a slagging match with blokes I've never met!
2007-06-01 03:00:05 · update #1
You and the rest of us, i don't understand men at all, i'm glad i'm not one though!
2007-06-01 02:35:36 · answer #1 · answered by Lola 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do girls cheat and lie? Seriously! When they say they want to marry you and love you forever? Some girls get with a guy then spend most of their time chasing others, pretending not to be and telling lies about it all. Is it fun for them? Is that WHY they get in a relationship or something, just so they can hurt and laugh at someone who loves them? Why not just tell the truth up front, eg I just want a shag with no strings? Some guys out there want that too, wouldnt it be kinder of them to not mess with people for fun? I'm bewildered about it all!
2007-06-01 09:34:01 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
There are people out there who just don't seem to control themselves. They like the chase, always will do, and once they have what they want then they lose all interest and will just drop whoever and move onto the next. Some people just can't resist a pretty face.
They may have every intention of marrying someone because they love that person, but find the chase too hard to give up on. That, or they feel the need to marry because they need someone to look after them
2007-06-01 09:40:44 · answer #3 · answered by Leaps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are the same and there are a lot of women like that too you know. I think its quite easy to tell if a person wants to settle down or not from the start or a relationship. If its clear they dont want commitment and you do then finish with them and find someone who wants the same things!
2007-06-01 09:36:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity. Most guys who cheat are found to be the most insecure of the entire male species. Most of the time they cheat just to see if they still have "it".
For example, my best friend is married to a guy who treats her like a dog (literally, when he says "come here", she runs up to him with a smile on her face. It makes me sick) and has cheated on her dozens of time in the past. Her husband, at first glance, would seem like the most egotistical "I think I'm the man" prick you've ever met. But when studied closely, he's more insecure than a thirteen year old boy with braces and freckles who has a crush on the popluar girl. So just make sure he can still throw game, he goes out and tries to get with any girl who will give him the time of day.
It makes me sick to my stomach to see guys like him do what they do. They need to understand that it doesn't make them any more of a man to do it. If anything, it makes them even less of one.
2007-06-01 09:40:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are the same. To be honest sometimes the best part of the relationship is the chase not the catch. You should take your time finding someone who loves you. There is someone out there for you. dont give up looking.
2007-06-01 09:44:03 · answer #6 · answered by Neil van 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually they are ones who live to regret what they've lost.
But i guess when a guy cheats you, "Drop it like its hot sister". You are worth more than that, before you know it you'll find a man who will respect, love and cherish you the way you deserve it.
Not all of them are the same though. Only that the bad guys have spoilt the hope that there are good guys out there, I mean goooooood guys. . . . !
When we do the same, we are called who**s and bi****s.
They think they are irreplaceable. . . . . but they've got it all wrong sister!
All the best!
2007-06-01 09:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by Phenomenal woman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Despite my avatar I'm a guy and I admit most guys do that but some don't when I say something in a relationship I mean it. I'm only 14 and I want to get into a serious relationship unlike most people my age but lyings just something guys do so's cheating but you don't want them tipe of guys.
2007-06-01 09:48:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not just guys honey, you can get some real bitches too. Don't stereotype the boys, there are a lot of arseholes out there but its 50/50 with the girls. I have met the most amazing guy for me, and you will too in time, just remember dont be a man hater-Guys can be awesome!
2007-06-01 09:53:17 · answer #9 · answered by Kristen C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They just want to get into girls knickers, and don't take any notice of Mr Taco, that was a mean answer
2007-06-01 09:36:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
those kind of guys are afraid you will turn them down if they just ask for sex. if the guy starts talking about marriage in the beginning if the relationship, just turn away. they are out for "number one".
2007-06-01 09:40:03 · answer #11 · answered by Stoked 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋