2007-06-01 02:19:37 · 25 answers · asked by gracious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Who does she love the most? It shouldn't matter how much money they have. If they make her happy then that's who she should be with.
2007-06-01 02:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know this answer is quite cliche - but she should marry the man that she loves and the one that will make her happy. I know that it is also a chiche to say that money doesn't buy happiness ... but this is not entirely the truth. Money can guarantee security - which is one thing you defiantly want in a marriage and especially when they begin to build their family.
However, like I said, the key is happiness. If he isn't exactly rich but she loves him and he makes her happy, then she should marry him. If they both work and don't overspend, then they will be on their way to a happy future. Lots of "poor" people end up being wealthy in the end.
At the same time, if she loves the rich man then she she love him for him ... and not for his money. If this is the case, then her decision should be easy.
I can't help but wander why your friend is in such a dilemma ... has she been dating two guy so seriously at the same time that they have both proposed to her??
Hm.
Well be a friend and give her good advise ... if she marries who she truly wants to, regardless of financial status, then she will be a happy woman.
2007-06-01 02:45:06 · answer #2 · answered by jaytotheackie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to marry the poor man make sure to can encourage him to be bigger and better things because a poor man can turn into a rich man with the help of a good women on his side and a little drive and determination. If you want to marry the rich guy make sure you want him for him and his person inside himself is who you really want to be with. What comes around goes around you could marry for money and get treated like you are are no one special rich men can pay for almost anything in this world be live into day. Pray and count up the cost your happiness is at stake either way. with the poor man it will be rough in the begining but some things good you don't get easy
2007-06-01 02:27:24 · answer #3 · answered by tellthetruth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I guess I don't get it. Did these two men propose to her and she doesn't know which to accept and is basing it on checkbnook size? Or is this hypothetical? Either way, it' snot the amount of money that a man has that she should be deciding from, it's the amount of love that they have for each other. A rich man may be able to provide fashy things, and the poor man may be able to provide the most love abnd time to her.
2007-06-01 02:25:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is more to a marriage then money, of course money makes life less stress full as we all have bills to pay but, it will not take away the void of loveless relationship. Having a rich guy who pays no attention to her makes for an unhappy wife.
If she wants a family life. Having a poor guy who works, finds time for her but can't give her everything on a silver platter may not make her happy if she longs for material things. There is more to a marriage then your question
2007-06-01 02:36:28 · answer #5 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, definitely marry a poor man. That way she can complain about starving to death and being homeless instead of obsessing about more important things like why did the cable go out and should she redo the media room in the house. Also, her friends won't be jealous of her and talk behind her back.
2007-06-01 02:28:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best man to marry a poor man is a rich woman.
2007-06-01 02:21:52 · answer #7 · answered by Aussie 1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women individuals are very aggressive, some are plenty worse then others. For those women individuals, they are continuously jealous and envious of what different women individuals have. the main suitable ego strengthen is to tutor that she's extra alluring and suitable and a guy is keen to danger his very own marriage to be along with her. of direction there is the buzz of sneaking around and not getting caught and in the event that they do get caught, properly it is no longer her marriage it is destroyed and he or she has shown her ingredient to the spouse that she's no longer woman adequate to maintain her guy devoted to her. some women individuals do no longer desire to get married. they only desire to have relaxing, intercourse, and frequently times additionally the presents the guy will provide her. She figures considering the fact that he's already married, he won't tension her to marry him and supply him toddlers. She gets each and all of the relaxing, with out having to be a spouse. There are all styles of tramps who bypass after married adult adult males for various motives. people who bypass after a guy, through fact she needs what yet another woman has are probable the worst style. they desire the guy to bypass away his spouse and marry her. those women individuals are somewhat ignorant. It by no ability happens to them that if this guy would cheat on his spouse, then he will do an identical ingredient to her if he leaves his spouse and marries her. She desires to have self belief that she's so specific, she makes him so chuffed and his love for her is plenty better then the affection he had for his spouse. That he would by no ability cheat on her. I certainly have a chum who pronounced her companion's mom is any such woman. Her companion's mom became married and had a pair of youngsters. She had an affair with a married guy who additionally had toddlers. She have been given pregnant along with her lover's infant. They the two divorced their spouses and that they've been given married. This woman became bowled over while her new husband cheated on her, a number of cases as quickly as they have been given married. Like I pronounced, any woman who chooses to have an affair with a married guy is merely undeniable ignorant and mentally screwed up.
2016-11-03 07:35:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would marry the man I loved. I married the poorman for love. We will be married 38years on August 23,2007.
2007-06-04 13:39:55 · answer #9 · answered by TAMPABAYLADY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best man to marry is the one you love. Money is nice, but it can't make you happy forever. Besides, if you marry a man strictly for his finances you are trapping yourself in a relationship where he is in total control. What if you want to leave him but you are financially dependent on him? I say marry the man that you know in your heart you will love forvever. Then go out and make your own money, it's 2007!!!
2007-06-01 02:24:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best man to marry is the one you love & the one that loves you back. If your friend is truly this shallow she should do some serious soul searching & work to change her life BEFORE she gets married.
2007-06-01 02:24:23 · answer #11 · answered by retropink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋