Am I a bad parent?

Question

Please tell me. I love my son to death even if he's half white.

Answer 1

i think im the only post you'll get that has caught your joke....
people....he's kidding.....see his name?
"chocolate fanatic"!
he's just joshing......very funny,too by the way.........

Answer 2

Are you saying you have trouble being a good parent because he's half white?
It's a difficult question to ask because it's not clear.
We just love our children - color, size, shape, deformities, all the bells and whistles. Color is sooooo unimportant.
It this is the reason you feel you're being a bad parent you need to stand back and look at your child and SEE the child - not the color.
You may discover that he has the most brilliant smile you've ever seen, the greatest laugh, etc.
And if that's not enough you need to look and see how he's looking at you - really look.
That look is love and trust - he trusts that you will take good care of him, feed him nutritious food, make sure that he gets a good education and that above all - you will never let anything harm him.
Even if it's yourself and your colorspeak.

Answer 3

It depends on the amount of time you spend caring, nurturing, reading, wrestling, listening, setting a strong example, teaching good hygiene, teaching your son about the world he lives in, exploring and giving him a variety of experiences.

If you feel you aren't a good parent, ask some other parents for guidance, advice, helpful suggestions. Make sure your son is around other children his age, when he reaches school - be involved and sign up to chaperon field trips and plan activities.

Someday you will have this experience to look back on and to help encourage some other new young father who is battling the same question(s).

Best of luck to you and your son ~

Answer 4

You are supposed to! Dont let that "even if he's half white" get to him! That could really damage him and the relationship... I have a white family, and my bro and his wife adopted two kids from the same Mom at different times, a boy and a girl, both of whom are black, or half and half..They are just sooo much apart of the family! We were worried about my Dad and his reaction, but he did soooo great and loves them just like the rest of the 35 grandchildren!

Answer 5

I'm wondering why if you have issues with white people that you slept with one?

What if the role was reversed? What if your son said to you that he loves you but too bad you're not white??

Think about it!! And keep loving him (after all he's YOUR son!!)

Answer 6

You're not a bad parent just a bad person. At the end he is your son whether he's black, white, Chinese, Asian or whatever.You don't expect having sex with a partner of different colour of yours ,for the baby to be your colour, do you?The baby will be of mixed race. Just accept him with all your love, he is your flesh and blood 50/50, isn't he?

Answer 7

why do you think your a bad parent? first, my twins are mixed race, not a day since they were born have i ever had issues with their skin color or will i in the feature!!! are you trying to get the ok from total strangers so it would be ok in your head?! here is my advice to you, Love your child, don't let what other people and their negative opinion ruin you and your son's relationship life is too short for you to be worrying about the small stuff and believe me it is "SMALL" and focus on the positive!!!!!

Answer 8

I am pretty sure that the fact that your son is half whit constites you as a bad parent. obviously you ar your babys mamma is white or part white and that didnt stop you. I am sure you are a great father.

Answer 9

How can loving a child possibly make you a bad parent? You need some help to counteract your prejudice against white people.

Answer 10

no you aren't a bad parent cos you love you're son but you do seem to have problems with white people.

Answer 11

no your not a bad parent. i think you just have some unresolved issues with white people. just remember there is good and bad in every race. you must get over what ever some white person(s) did to you. mabey you need to talk to someone.

i'm white and i think i'm a good person...give us a chance. i know there is a lot of unkind, uneducated whities, but we are all not bad. you don't want your son to feel badly about a part of his herritage, you don't want him to feel guilty for who he is.