hi well i dont know where to start, i guess i'm juts having a really bad day, i am studying at college and i live at home with my parents, i'm a 29yr old Male i do have a big family but they all live out of home, i would move out but worry for my mum since my father the prick is living another live and doesnt give a **** about her but when he gets home yells and abuses her, this crap has gone on for a long time ,but i'm there for her,
Last night i was up on the computer , today i slept most of the day aways because i was tierd,and my parentys had a fight not becase i was sleeping but because my father is an asshole, he's this type of father that wants you to do everything because he said so and if you dont he's going to have a go at you, the fuckers got no feelings, i hate him and wish he would just die, he was never around when i was a kid and still aint but that between my parents not me.
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2007-05-31 22:36:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My abusive adoptive dad disowned me and cut off my contact with over 50 of my family members. My biological mother was a prositute and addicted to drugs and had my baby sister right before she went to prison. I got held back a grade. I moved in with my grandparents. a family friend sexually abused me. my boyfriend cheated on me 6 times. my biological mom is now getting out of prison early because she has leukemia.
I havent given up. I cut myself once and I felt better for 3 minutes or so, then I felt 20 times worse.
Life is starting to get better for me. It will for you too. I promise.
2007-05-31 22:42:12 · answer #1 · answered by Mikki Lynn Breisch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a decent guy, and I'm sure you are. Why not try going into some type of education, maybe university, or get what you need in order to go to university first. That's probably a great way to meet new people, and as long as you act friendly and be yourself then there's no reason why you shouldn't make friends and be lonely anymore. I'm sure that this priest isn't burdened by you, he's probably keen to help. I'm sorry for your health problems, I can't even imagine what it must be like. But keep going, you do the best you can, cutting your wrists is not the answer. All the best.
2016-05-18 03:33:55 · answer #2 · answered by rene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definately need counselling to help you sort out how you are going to make the change. Big changes are necessary, and cutting your wrists is the worst option, followed closely by attacking your father...
1/Counselling
2.Plan a change for you and your mother. Investigate possibilities
3 Action, Carry out the plan and don't look back.
2007-05-31 22:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by Goddess of Laundry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ill give you a reason to cut your wrists........if your not in a concentration camp getting raped by the gaurd, and having to eat sour milk and 4 day old cabbage.....then you have no right right to cut your wrists. No one has the right. Wana feel pain? Go and get a tattoo.
If you really care enoug.....get an apartment, take your mother with yuo....and you both go halfies on the rent. That way your prick father can suffer by himself.
I dont sugarcoat candy.
2007-05-31 22:43:05 · answer #4 · answered by Born to be wild 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you hate your father so much, you shouldnt be the one to suffer (by slitting your wrists). my father wasnt around too when i was growing up which kinda sucks but anyway. im sure my life wasnt as bad as yours. but cutting your wrists is lame, immature, and really just bull crap. it wouldnt end all your pain--it would just double it. i say work on yourself and get your ass out of the bed. im not being sarcastic okay, and there's no sarcasm somewhere in my answer. im just telling you to CHILL OUT, because always think that other people have it a LOT worse. so dont think it's the end of the world for you.
2007-05-31 22:42:55 · answer #5 · answered by I'm his Winona 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope this is a joke. I suggest you get a job and move out. Talk to other family members about your fathers behavior and get them involved. Your dad sounds like quite the azzhole. Your mother needs to pack it up and get out of that situation as well.
2007-05-31 22:43:50 · answer #6 · answered by Haywood Jablomee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT DO YOU EXPECT FOR YOUR MOTHER WHEN SHE FINDS HER SON DEAD FROM CUTTING HIS WRISTS? do you really think your asshole father will change his ways? NO. he won't. if anything, he'll become worse, or your mother will be dead inside. if you really want to do something you need to get a really good job when you're done with school and get you and your mom away.
2007-05-31 23:00:24 · answer #7 · answered by J A 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What non-sense???You are 29yr old and writing like 9yr old.Get into some good job.Save yourself and save your mother also from this predicament.Act fast.Dont further give pains to your mother.
2007-05-31 22:41:37 · answer #8 · answered by Cool Lad 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's you having a bad day, we all have them, but as for cutting your wrists..........it's a stupid idea to even consider that, what will happen to your mom if you were to do that, who would protect her from him then? and besides, you have many reasons to live, life is short, have fun with it and enjoy your family as they intend on enjoying having you as part of their family
2007-05-31 22:44:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you need someone to talk to you can email me i am on write now and will be on for awhile now. my name is christy and my email is christycalvin2004@yahoo.com
i suffer from manic depression and i am bi polar as well i have dealt with situations of suicide and whatnot. sometimes you just need a friend. ;)
2007-05-31 22:42:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋