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Hey Ben,
I just wanted to let you know that I am still here and even though we are not together like we used to be, I will wait faithfully until you’re finished your posting on Manoora.
I respect you and support your work Ben. I hope you aren’t ever lonely. I am doing well with my work and Alex is growing into a fine young man. Bella is also getting much bigger, but with the colder weather now, she is getting slightly frumpy again!
Sending you a big smile and warm wishes. Regardless of anything, I’ll always love you; you will always be the man of my dreams Ben York and no, I don’t think I’ll ever get over you.
Love always,
Your pretty girl
2007-05-31 20:38:24 · 11 answers · asked by Lizzie B 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
He is a naval officer and we parted last year as he found having a r/ship and being at sea too stressful.
I am 32 and I adore this man! I have a lot going for me and we shared a deep love when we were together. We were like peas in a pod..
I just wasn't used to having a partner away most of the time. We used to argue and he hated it. I have since learnt better! Besides, love doesn't grow on tree's.
Am keen to hear yr perspective!
Thanks :)
2007-05-31 20:58:38 · update #1
My dear you have suffered the same fate that has plagued navy learned how to float a boat. There isn't a good answer from a man. You should ask a navy wife. They are the ones who stay at home while their men go down to the sea in ship's. Open this question up to woman, they know more about the loneliness and being alone or by themselves than any man will.
2007-05-31 21:26:30 · answer #1 · answered by roaddrvr43 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure send it, it only costs you 41 cents.
I hope it works out for you, however you mentioned you argued because he was gone alot and he did not like that.
You don't mention anything in your letter about not arguing in the future.
Not trying to be mean to you, but he may already have someone else in his life, or may have decided when you guys broke up the first time that he wants someone who will support his career not question it. Why should he think everythings changed now, if you argued before...why did you suddenly realize you can't live with out him? Did you think you could find a better guy and could not?
As I mentioned, I am not trying to be mean. Just don't want you to get your hopes up.
Good luck
2007-05-31 22:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely yes
2007-05-31 20:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by Braddock52 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know, I'm a woman, but this the letter sounds like it is for a soldier. You should definately send it. I'm sure it would be such a moral booster for him.
2007-05-31 20:52:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm...long story cut short..i think if he is lonely out there on the sea..he must be reading the letters that you sent to him for his past time...you should send this letter but...maybe a bit more about what have done while he is out there..
its just a suggetion but i reaaalllyy think that you should this letter to him...
2007-05-31 21:59:41 · answer #5 · answered by nizE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
send it, Ben will will be made happy. You might add that you are doing well in school.
2007-05-31 20:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by question mark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! Send it.
2007-05-31 20:42:37 · answer #7 · answered by John T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't send it. He left you for a reason and has probably forgotten you.
2007-05-31 22:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go for it. You never know what might happen.
Good luck
2007-05-31 21:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by My world 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who broke up with who?
2007-05-31 20:57:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋