OK so I've been working with this girl for about a week or so and I kinda like her and she seems to sweat me a bit, idk, I think i'm getting mixed signals, I'm not so sure. Plus she just got out of a six year relationship with someone. She had a baby with him too. Idk how long ago she broke up with him, but it must've been at least over a month or 2 ago. So then I asked her what are you doing this weekend? (It took a sec or 2 for her to answer and she said so far nothing, everything is the last min.) And then I said, well we should do something then, and then she said, "Maybe". I just want to know how she feels about me, I just want an answer, it pisses me off so much, I've been rejected so many times and I'm sick of it.
2007-05-31 18:11:04 · 8 answers · asked by ltquark 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first calm down frustration is not attractive. You are going after the wrong women and perhaps sabotaging yourself with them. This women just got out of a long term relationship and she has a child. Under those circumstances one or 2 months is nothing and not nearly enough time to be over the end of the relationship.
Also many women do not wish to date people that they work with they want to keep their professional life separate from their social life.
She said maybe, so maybe when she feels better about things in her life she might go out with you but you should not be holding your breath. she just as easily could be trying not to hurt your feelings with a direct no. You need to stop getting so upset over rejections. If the person has rejected you be happy they were not right for you in the first place. Don't give up, the one for you is out there.
2007-05-31 18:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just got out of a 6 year relationship, what do you expect? She has a child. Did you ever think that she may need to see if she can get a sitter?
Give the girl a break. Just because you have recently had a string of bad luck does not mean that she is supposed to jump into something with you right away. Give her time to at least get over the relationship--they have a child together!! A month or two is not long enough to start looking for another relationship. What do you want to be---her rebound?
Sounds like you need to grow up, and stop being so selfish that you can't see what someone else might be feeling!!!
2007-06-01 01:23:12 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe means politely NO.
she must have some feelings for you to let you down gently she probably just wants a friend right now.
after 6 years, 2 months isn't really long enough break to go jumping back in there, there is a good chance she's just not over it yet. her baby will always come first, she has a lot to consider. I'd give her some space if you really like her you'll wait, you've already let her know your interested so just leave the ball in her court.
2007-06-01 01:23:51 · answer #3 · answered by Cooter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must not have much experience with single mothers - it is not that easy just to make plans when you have to deal with babysitters. She really MEANT "maybe", and that may or may not have anything to do with feelings for or against YOU. Are you always so angry, impatient, and demanding towards women? Could that be something that would cause you to be rejected? Try looking at yourself and your attitude a bit more before you jump the assumption wagon and get mad because someone needs time before answering you.
2007-06-01 01:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, don't try to date someone that you work with.
secondly, you've only known her about a week or two, and she just got out of a 6 yr relationship and she has a child. she might not be ready to start dating again, and she's definatelt not going to want to bring a new guy around the child yet,,,, it's too soon. so relax and let things take it's course.
2007-06-01 01:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by rickys_lil_mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While dealing with girls,pay more attention to body-language and other signs ,than what they say.Nothing to look down upon but just accept the factual position.So start re reading and then draw the conclusions.Good luck.
2007-06-01 01:23:50 · answer #6 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Maybe" means: why the hell are you barking up my tree, can't you see that I just got out of a 6 year relationship?
2007-06-01 01:17:09 · answer #7 · answered by honey buckets 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it means she wants go out with you,, asked her more,,
get her,,gud luck
2007-06-01 01:17:36 · answer #8 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋