He and I dated for a year and a half and then I dumped cuz it wasn't workin out since I moved to a new town. And after that I really regreted doin that. He started goin out wit my best friend Beth and it made me kinda mad @ her. He dumped her and then asked me out and of course I said yes. Then a day lata he dumped me and went out wit Beth again. Then just yesterday he told me he like me when I was over @ his house and after I left he asked me out over the computer. I said yes again. And now this morning he dumped me again and hes goin out wit Beth...again. I try 2 get over him but, it's so hard! I go back over there 2 see his sis on Sat. what if he starts likin me agian and asks me out. I'm afraid to get hurt if I say yes. And then I feel like I'm lettin go of a good relationship if I say no. It was soooo much easier when we were younger...Help Me!!! He soooo cute! and I still really love him!!! :(
2007-05-31 17:57:54 · 9 answers · asked by *~*Alyssa*~* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love him or not;he doesn't seem like the guy for you. He seems to be treating both of you as if it was some kind of game. Let him go and find yourself a guy who will treat you with some RESPECT.
2007-05-31 18:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by mopjky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good Relationship? He is getting the best of both worlds. One day he can be with you, and the next, he can be with her. He is playing both of you. That is not what I would call a good relationship. Cute and nice are two different things. Dump this jerk. I don't care if he looks like a God. He is using you. You deserve to be treated much better than that!
If you really decide to try it one more time, tell him up front that this is the very last time that you are going to take him back. Tell him that if he leaves you again, he can just keep going!!!
2007-06-01 01:05:46 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea girl, he's no good. He's using you and your friend Beth. Don't be mad at her. She has just as much right to him as you do. If he asks she can say yes or no. He don't want either one of you. He's seeing who will let him get into their pants. You think your in love but your not trust me. I thought I was in love like 4 times before I actually grew up and got a brain. Now I am married but I am now mature and understand what love really is. Dump him cause he surely don't care about your or Beth.
2007-06-01 01:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by firsttimemommy_1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I pray that your young because if not your a lonely and sad individual cause from what your saying is that he bouncing back and forth between you and your best friend literally every other day. come on now, you know better than to let him toss you around like that. its obvious that you are smart enough to recognize that he's playin you, but its not clear why your letting him bounce you around in that way. your worth way more than how he's treating you. the fact i he's basically tellin you that you bore him after a day no hours. so if he doesn't appreciate you , you need to find a man more into you, not this boy you obvious tolerating for a reason i will never understand!
2007-06-01 01:10:32 · answer #4 · answered by THICKCHICK426 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not go over there, I would ask his sister to come over to my house. It sounds like he was trying to get back at you for breaking it off with him first. As for him asking you out again, you need to say no!!!! Let go and move on but that will not happen if you keep going to his house. Believe me you will not be letting go of a good relationship.
2007-06-01 01:06:40 · answer #5 · answered by Shylia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first thing you need to do is take a step back and get a deep breath.Tell him how you feel and you can't handle this crap anymore.Even though if it feels like your are letting go of a good relationship tell him if he does it again your gone! He will realize what he is missing after awhile!
2007-06-01 01:01:50 · answer #6 · answered by DJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tihnkif this beth girl is your true best friend you both would realize what he is doing to you,,,,he seems like a real dog try so hard i know it sucks but i wen tthrough the same thing i had to pull away from some one i like soo much it wasn't even funny cuz i new it would lead somewhere that i didn'twant it to go
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2007-06-01 01:02:20 · answer #7 · answered by LiveLaughLove10 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont say yes, its better for you if you don't, hes not right for you if he keeps dumping you and going out wit your best friend. Leave him alone and avoid him when your at his house. Its obly making him feel like hes a player and its not good for your rep. seriously. and not good for your friendship.
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2007-06-01 01:00:45 · answer #8 · answered by Sophie* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not bipolar, is he?!?
2007-06-01 01:05:31 · answer #9 · answered by vijay888 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋