Hi! Ummm I kno this is wierd but I am having alot of trouble deciding if i am straight or not.I aint saying my age b/c I dont want you to judge me by that.BUT I am in school.Ok sumtimes I see a boy or two that I think is really cute.And I imagine what I would like to do with them.There is one boy at school that I dk if he would be up for doing anything b/c I dk if he is gay or not.I love girls and I get turned on by them easily,however I find it almost just as satisfying to be with a very cute boy.I have had sex with a boy,but not yet a girl.I stay up late nights looking at a little bit of gay porn and girl porn.I like wearing girl closes and thongs.Sometimes I like anal.I NEED HELP!? AM I GAY???
2007-05-31 17:42:04 · 21 answers · asked by DJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds like you are a bi-sexual guy who goes both ways and likes to dress up as a woman. but since you haven't been with a girl yet you don't even know if you are really bi-sexual or gay yet. the best way would to know is to be with both sexes first and see which one you like more being with. if you like being with both then your bi-sexual if not then your either straight or gay. and I know a lot of guys who like anal sex. I have a guy friend who likes anal sex a lot but he only likes it with a woman and not a man. he likes he girlfriend to do him. and he's not gay at all. but then again he has never been with a guy before either. but it's normal for a guy or a girl to think that someone of the same sex is cute without being gay. I have a female friend who always telling me that she thinks this girl or that girl is cute but she's not into women at all. so to answer your question if you are gay or not it depends on how you feel about it. people can tell you that you either gay or not but only you know deep down if you are or aren't. I hope this help you.
2007-05-31 18:01:28 · answer #1 · answered by thydarknight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably bisexual, a lot of people are bisexual, usually bisexual people prefer one sex over the other one most of the times but they still find it enjoyable to be with the sex that they don't prefer so much. I'm guessing you are 75% straight and 25% gay. A lot people act gay when they are young but later become straight as they grow older. You may be the case.
2007-05-31 17:49:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you are attracted to both guys and girls, then you are bisexual. Though just make sure you use condoms especially during anal sex. You can get STD or worst HIV-AIDS. Read more about anal sex.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/anal_sex
Be yourself, do not let these fanatical religious B.S. affect you. As long as you do not harm other people and your responsible enough in your sexual activities, I do not see any reason to condemn you.
2007-05-31 17:57:09 · answer #3 · answered by PAXson 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are confused more than anything. you are preoccupied with the subject in general. i wouldn't worry about being gay or straight as of yet. you r experimenting, which i personally don't think is very smart. there are a lot of diseases out there. be careful and don't label yourself. it's really not that serious. you'll know when u meet the person u want to spend the rest of your life with.
2007-05-31 17:50:50 · answer #4 · answered by beccaboo 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You're no longer born homosexual, in order that meana you'll be able to prefer whether or not or no longer you might love to be homosexual. There's is not a sure reply. If that is what you desire then opt for it, if no longer, then do not fear approximately it.
2016-09-05 18:34:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me just the way to write things sounds gay so i'm guessing you are
2007-05-31 17:44:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I think you are. Please don't listen to people that say Love is love and who ever you love does not matter. What the heck ? It is totally againts the Bible . God man Woman to be with man. It is un Godly. You should look at girls more. And try playing some sports
2007-05-31 17:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
hi i dont know if im gay or what although i am happy and i like boys because i am not a lesbian. so what i dont know if would mean any thing
2007-06-01 04:40:53 · answer #8 · answered by baby girl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I WOULD SURE HOPE NOT. YOU WILL BE MAKING A HUGE MISTAKE SPIRITUALLY AND PHYSICALLY!!!
GOD HIMSELF SAYS IT IS A HUGE SIN.
YOU CAN ALSO GET DISEASES AS WELL HAS OTHER HEALTH PROBLEMS AND WHAT WOMAN WILL WANT YOU IF YOU CHANGE LATER ON AND WISH YOU HAD A FAMILY?
THIS WILL ALSO HURT YOUR PARENTS AND FAMILY VERY MUCH!! ASK GOD TO HELP YOU MAKE WISE DECISIONS AND STOP BEFORE YOU MAKE MORE BAD DECISIONS.
GAYS ONLINE MAY TELL YOU IT'S GREAT AND ENCOURAGE YOU, BUT IT'S A LIE FROM SATAN. HE COMES TO STEAL, KILL, AND DECEIVE!!!! GOD IS LIFE AND SATAN LEADS TO DESTRUCTION AND DEATH.
2007-05-31 17:52:15 · answer #9 · answered by 4263 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
If you are not gay, you are a switch hitter.
Good Luck and be careful.
Doc
2007-05-31 17:46:15 · answer #10 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋