My boyfriend need punishment. He doesn't do what he says he's gonna do and it seems that he puts everything and everybody befor me. I'm sick of him but I don't want to leave of cheat just yet. He needs to learn a lesson. Ladies, what should I do?
I prefer to hear some tried and true methods but I'm open to all suggestions. And guys if you can tell me what it took for you to learn you lessons that would help too?
2007-05-31 17:15:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
TRIED AND TRUE???? Well the I TRIED it and the TRUTH is that you will never change him no matter how mad you get. My suggestion just speaking from experience, don't get married to him and don't spend your life being unhappy. I am married 14 yrs. and I KNOW what I am talking about! GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
2007-06-08 17:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by KELJO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is ripe for an answer that involves whips, chains and high leather boots but I won't go there.
What are you, his mother? Why would you want to 'punish' someone like that? If he doesn't do what he says, call him on it and if he continues to screw up, break up with him. There's no lesson to be learned other than he's not the right guy for you.
2007-06-08 23:02:00 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like at some point you, plan on leaving or cheating on him as you said you haven't just "yet". Not sure what he's saying he's going to do but never seems to do...always has time to do things for and with everyone else before you...... you have 2 options.....1-Sit down and talk to him, let him know how this is making you feel.....or 2 -leave him* There's no in between* You're either going to continue accepting it...or choose Not to accept it..Your choice*-GoodLUck*
2007-06-01 00:40:05 · answer #3 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When He is telling u he is about to do something,
Example: Babes I'm going 2 the club wit my friends
You say sarcastically: Yeah go,and be,al stuck up.
Mine is the same. To make Ur relationship work u need to know what gets 2 him.
Ur man is only doing the 4 things a small child would do if they don't get their own way
1)Say:I don't care What u say!!
2)Pull a tantrum.
3)Say:Fine "daddy"will give it to me.(Ur bf Will threaten u wit another girl.)
Or
4)Say:I don't Love you anymore
MEN ACT KIDS!!
2007-06-08 19:09:06 · answer #4 · answered by Emma xXx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~Proven to work~
Pack your bags and leave him. Stop playing games and grow up. Leave his butt before you can't.
And also , he is NOT your child. you have no right to punish him in any way. If you are not happy, leave. How would you feel if he punished you every time you nagged him about what you want him to do? Or every time you disappointed him?
The relationship is over anyway, you already got one foot out the door, so go and quit playing "mommie" to him.
2007-06-08 17:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by † Seeker of Truth † 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lisa D what satifaction would you get out of hurting your bf which means you really dont love do you know why you are still with him come on you both need to move on and stop that childish vendetta you seem to imature get a life woman
2007-06-08 23:47:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make your life really busy and make it seem like you have things to do thats more important than him. If he shows he miss you just let him know how you feel about him hurting you and it was just a way to stop you from hurting. If he shows that he don't miss you then move on because he is too selffish and is really not thinking about you.
2007-06-08 20:23:42 · answer #7 · answered by crystal b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try ignoring him. when he wants to do something with you say u have other plans in a rly snotty way and just walk away. makes him wondering what they are and makes him think about what he did wrong. OR you could explain to him how u feel and ask him whats more important you or w/e else it is he does. then be like if u want this relationship to work i want u to put some effort into it
2007-06-01 00:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by brooklyn15290 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Set him up call him and tell him you want him to meet you and a bar or something and let him sit there and just as he is about to walk out come in and say so how does it feel to be lied to about the ity bity stuff...it hurts doesn't it and it piss you off well it hurts me also and it pisses me off too so STOP doing it and have a serious face on and then give him that beautiful SMILE...
2007-06-01 00:21:04 · answer #9 · answered by Ablebaby 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tell him to get lost! That's about the worst punishment you could GIVE him. Maybe it will actually turn him around.
2007-06-01 00:19:03 · answer #10 · answered by ol_skater_boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋