I live in NYC and I get jerks bothering me randomly, example, i was walking to the subway after work and these guys who are total strangers told me "oh you are so sexy and cute, too bad you are dumb as all hell"
I just kept walking like i didnt hear them, but should have i told them off? But isnt that what their looking for?
how do i handle it?
2007-05-31 17:02:39 · 10 answers · asked by tbo 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Tune out ANYTHING (positive or negative) catcallers say to you while you're walking. They're just hoping you'll stop and talk with them, at which point they'll probably jump you for your cash or rape you.
So.... DEFINATELY just keep walking and act as if you didn't even hear their rude remark... start talking into the air as if you have a bluetooth in your ear... this way they'll really think you didn't hear there remarks.
2007-05-31 20:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by Genie♥Angel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 18:32:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just keep walking and act as if you didn't even hear their rude remark. Hold your head up high and don't allow stranger's insults to get you down. Hope this helps!
2007-05-31 17:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by Super Wifey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have reacted boldly and given them good answers. In such situation never allow yourself to be bullied otherwise it will be difficult for you to handle. Be brave and act very smartly.
2007-05-31 17:10:12 · answer #4 · answered by nimesh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You turn around and pop the snot out of them, or have your boy friend do it. No no realy just ignore it, when someone does that they want attention. Don't feel bad about anyhting they say, just forget about it.
2007-05-31 17:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by Rinjaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You handled it perfectly. They want a reaction, they don't deserve it.... just pretend you didn't hear them and keep on walking.
2007-05-31 19:08:48 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely ignore them.
2007-05-31 18:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by barbara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think I dismiss them as being intellectually-challenged. No point being angry with them or being bothered by them.
2007-05-31 18:10:16 · answer #8 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your chin up and just keep walking.
2007-05-31 17:05:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give them "The look".
2007-05-31 17:09:28 · answer #10 · answered by DAIMAKU 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋