I tried telling her that i liked her but i don't think she thought i was serious. I'm just sick and tired of this. It's been a year now and i just want to let her know and move on. I want to let her know I will always be there for her as a friend. I want to write this and give it to her as a note. Please help. How should I start this?
2007-05-31 16:43:52 · 9 answers · asked by Harold 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am really sure she doesn't like me.
2007-05-31 16:45:32 · update #1
no no no, theres a reason why i want to write her a note instead of telling her. Trust me, I tried and it takes a whole lot out of me.
2007-05-31 16:50:24 · update #2
i know, im not trying to get her to like me. I want to let her know i will ber there for her as a friend
2007-05-31 16:51:19 · update #3
To let her know that like liked her and i understand we cant be together. I will be there for her as a friend.
2007-05-31 16:52:42 · update #4
I just wanted to make it perfectly clear that you have missed the chance to get to know someone worth knowing.................
2007-05-31 16:47:49 · answer #1 · answered by friendlyadvice 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always thought that letters were immature, but I see where you're coming from and why you wanna do it. Well, here's a letter I've come up with....hope it helps.
Dear .....
I have something very important that I've wanted to tell you. I've told you before, but I don't believe you took me seriously. We've been friends for a while now, and I have feelings for you. It's up to you where we go from here. If you're not interested in me, I won't force you into anything and am prepared to get over you and let this go. You will never hear of this again, and we can go on being friends. We've been friends for too long to let something like this stop us. I will always be there whenever you need me as I have always been.
Something to the affect of that. You don't have to write her a three page essay or anything like that. Keep it short, keep it sweet, keep it easy. Let her feel in your words there are no hard feelings, and after she's read the letter DON'T BRING IT UP UNLESS SHE DOES. This letter puts the ball in her court. It also insures that if she is interested in talking to you about this, it's up to her to bring it up. You've already done your part and you're prepared to let it go. So, once you've written the letter, let it go.
2007-05-31 17:29:27 · answer #2 · answered by Honesty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An 'anonymous' note is supposed to be 'anonymous'. Intentionally given, without showing that it was 'you' who sent it. You obviously had good reasons to send it to him, to cheer him up, to advise him, to make him feel better...whatever. And he had his reasons to get annoyed the third time. Since he is at the moment 'annoyed' at the third one, i think you should allow it to fade into a 'short distant' memory, and then when the moment seems right and his temper or negativity has come down, you may want to talk to him that you send it and why you sent it (assuming that he is a freind of yours and you both know each other well). He would appreciate that you did care. But if you dont know him at all, and you send and anonymous letter, he has no idea who the hell u are...then just keep quiet for a long long time..and before you tell him, make sure u get to know him better.
2016-05-18 01:49:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've already tried telling her face to face with no reaction from her way, a note saying the same thing is not going to work...she's not interested. If you really want to be there as her friend "always" then just be her friend. Maybe she'll come around to you later...and you can meet her girlfriends as a bonus.
2007-05-31 16:49:06 · answer #4 · answered by ndngrlz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what I think you should do is to tell her how you feel like tell her how you feel and that is has been a year and that you been waiting for a long time for her to respond and she hasn't but if you really care about her tell her that you will always be there for her when ever she needs it...she will sooner or later realize what she has missed out on...good luck tell her what you feel and how you felt when you told her and she thought you were joking around
2007-05-31 16:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start off by saying "Hi "her name", I wanted to take the time to write you, to let you know that for the past year, i've wanted to get to know you better, but I wasn't sure how to approach you. I tried telling you, but I felt like you wern't taking me seriously. I was wondering if you would like to get to know me better?? Perhaps we can go "to a movie..or ? macdonalds??ice cream...sometime. I would also like you to know, that no matter what you decide, I just wanted to tell you how I feel and that i'll always be here for you if you ever need me*~
GOODLUCK*-just get it out there to her, and see what happens., at least, soon enough , you'll have your answer*~
2007-05-31 17:18:36 · answer #6 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, often when girls feel an unwanted come on attempt from a male friend we pretend we think it's a joke, but we are not stupid and we know exactly what you guys are trying to say. We do this to stop you guys saying something embarassing and making the friendship uncomfortable. I'm sorry if this hurts your feelings but she knows and she doesn't you. Best to keep it to yourself.
2007-05-31 16:48:17 · answer #7 · answered by Miss La La 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesnt like you, stay friends, all you can do. Just tell her in person and say something like "Hey I really like you, if its mutual, we should go out sometime."
See what she says, and TALK to her.
2007-05-31 16:48:00 · answer #8 · answered by colormebrown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, say: Hey wat up, i realy want to let you know how i feel. I realy like you. i will always be there for you. . . . .
Good Luck
2007-05-31 16:49:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋