flirting techniques?

Question

what are your best flirting moves? i'm clueless

Answer 1

I always thought all women were born "pre-wired" with all the standard flirting techniques, or inherited the "flirting gene".

Maybe there is some kind of training video you can order?

I'm a guy; I'll tell you what works on me + a few helpful hints.

Seriously, if you see a guy you think is cute definately make your way over to him, say "hi, my name is [insert your name here] then (this is important) smile. (Practice the smile in front of a mirror until you can make one that looks natural and friendly, if you try too hard you'll just look simple-minded). Usually, the guy will tell you his name. At this point you just need to keep him talking to you; you can use the standard lines such as "What are you drinking?" or "do you come here often" etc or make up something original; it really doesn't matter so much what you say (as long as it isn't profoundly stupid) but remember to smile! When you're talking to him stay a little closer than you would when talking to a stranger but don't get uncomfortably close; if he starts backing away you're too close. Make certain to look at him; don't be looking all over the room for the next guy on your "hit list" when he's talking to you. At some point he might offer to buy you a drink; definately accept his hospitality, but two points here; order something that is aproximately the same cost as what you were already drinking (if you suddenly switch from root beer to 75-year old scotch when he's paying, he won't say anything, but he'll feel that you are an expensive habit and he is being used. The second point is, if the drink is not being brought by a waiter, accompany him to the bar when he gets it! First, it will keep other women from "muscling in on your territory" and it would make it very difficult for him to slip some kind of knock-out pills into your drink undetected. He may invite you to sit at his table; definately accept. Expect him to behave as a gentleman; he should keep his hands to himself. If you would prefer that he do otherwise, well, that is your own business. Beware of any guy that, right after meeting you, wants to get you in his car, or tries to get you to go to his house, or some isolated area for "privacy". If you meet a guy who seems to be nice, but your nervous about giving out your phone number, be honest with him and say so, a lot of women just give out wrong numbers, guys hate this! Good luck finding that perfect guy!

Answer 2

making fun is definately good. by doing so you can create inside jokes that can create a signicant moment that you can recall upon the next time you see them. just make sure when you are teasing them, tease them about something they are confident about and wont get offended.

Answer 3

http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html