I have fallen deeply in love with him, and now.. he already has a girl, who isn't me. I would do anything for him. Sometimes he gives me some weird signs. Even though it hurts me to wait so much, I would, till the end of time. Because all this is worth him, to my eyes he really is perfect. I have known him since kindergarden, so it's kinda difficult for him to see me in another way than a classmate. Don't tell me to forget him, because I won't, I love him way too much, and I know that other girl dosen't give him at all what he needs. My friends they see it all, and they tell me to wait, that he will come eventually because we're the perfect match. Yet.. if we really were so perfect we'd me together, right? I have never gone out with him, and probably.. never will.. (sadly). I'll have HIM or NO ONE. I've made up my mind, and when I do it's final. So.. what I need right now is tips to get his attention please, I beg you to be helpful! For my sake!. Thank you. :)
2007-05-31 15:17:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ur crazy......and listen to ur friends..
2007-05-31 15:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by Pineapples aren't quiet Strawberries!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you're hurting but NO ONE Is perfect. You need to take him off of the pedestal because right now all it's going to do is hurt you. True love will find it's way in the end, but always remember the saying 'Loving you ain't loving me'. The way you look at things right now will do nothing but bring you tears, pain and heartache. How do you know if you're a perfect match if you haven't gone out with him? People are not always what they seem. Even if you know him as a friend, you don't know how he is in a relationship.
You can only get his attention if he wants you to and honestly you have to be careful about trying to get his attention because he could very well take it the wrong way and think you are stalking him.
Wish you the best and hope that true love finds you. Please just keep your heart and mind open. Just be careful because in your journey to get him to be yours, you could very well destroy any relationship you have with him.
2007-05-31 15:37:25 · answer #2 · answered by colorfulgiftofsoul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you KNOW you love him when you haven't even been out w/him. You don't know what kind of a person he is on a one on one basis. How do you know you're a perfect match when you haven't even been "matched". How do you know his g/f doesn't give him what he needs. Evidentally he thinks so or he wouldn't be w/her. I truly think you should try to put him out of your mind, move on & find someone who might just be the perfect one for you! You'll never know unless you try. You don't even have anyone to compare him with. Of course your friends care about you & are going to stick up for you, that's what friends are for. But, in this case, they are not helping you, they are attrubitation to your obession. Honestly, let go of him & try hard to get interested in someone who is going to care about YOU. You've got to move on & not hold onto a dream that just might not be, & for many reasons. IF you were meant to be & were so perfect, you'd be with him now. I don't mean to sound cold, but am thinking of you wasting precious time on "what ifs".
2007-05-31 15:31:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My love any guy who would put off a girl who"s feelings have been so well expressed, I"m sorry but the boy is just not right.Sweetie you deserve a white knight ! Please don"t close yourself off or you may never meet the guy who is meant for you ! Baby I will pray earnestly that either the guy you like wakes up and sees you in a different light or he quickly sends you your white knight ! Jesus loves you and so do I !
2007-05-31 15:42:53 · answer #4 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about things he's interested in. when you see him in the hall, run up behind him and cover his eyes...you know. laughs when he makes a joke. when ur sitting next to him.....touch his hands, look into his eyes when he speaks. ask if he wants to hang out with you sometimes.
2007-05-31 15:22:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you have some obsessive need to be with this guy. Throw yourself at him and see if that does any good
2007-05-31 15:21:01 · answer #6 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm... I've never dealt with anything like this... I'd tell him how I felt... See how that goes...
2007-05-31 15:54:15 · answer #7 · answered by baby face. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ill say this one loud and clear 4 get his mothe f***ing a** untill he is single if you still likehim
2007-05-31 16:08:22 · answer #8 · answered by imani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you already talk to him and have good chemistry with him and he still doesn't like him then just wait I guess
2007-05-31 15:21:31 · answer #9 · answered by ryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow reminds me of
Landon Pigg- "Cant let go"
you should listen to that =]
2007-05-31 15:20:23 · answer #10 · answered by Heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋