I want a bf and I'm ugly. I dont think any boys at school like me. Only three guys in the entire school talk to me on a regular basis. How do I get a bf? You can see how ugly I am at www.myspace.com/amberrenee91
2007-05-31 15:05:37 · 44 answers · asked by ♥♥Amber♥♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hehe, I have seen ugly people, some are down right scary, you are by no means scary, I wouldnt even go so far as to call you ugly. Ok so you want a boyfriend? Why? We are just trouble anyway, trust me by the time you hit 21 you will have guys hanging off you and wonder what happened, you are probably just going through a phase its nothing to worry about, you will find guy probably go for the more tarty girls anyway at the school , and trust me you dont want to fall into that bracket, they tend to end up with all the idiot guys anyway. Just be patient someone will come along and when he does it will be worth the wait, Dont sell yourself short, think positive and you will find things happen when you least expect or want it to happen.
2007-05-31 15:11:36 · answer #1 · answered by GT 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh come on! I just looked at your picture and it's not ugly at all (that's what you wanted to hear, right? But I do mean it).
Loads of people have a tough time at school, and it's really common for someone your age to have a low opinion of themselves. Things are very different when you get older: You get more mature, and the people around you also grow up and stop acting so stupid.
Obviously knowing that isn't gonna be so much of a help right now, but just know that attractiveness is a lot more than looks. It's your entire manner as a person and the way you interact with others. It all contributes to how they see you. Try to think positively and try not to take things too seriously at this point in your life. You'll get the hang of it over time.
Finally, seeing as I am a guy, I'll say that a lot of guys may be too shy to ask a girl out, or in many cases even to talk to her. Being friendly and approachable in general can go a long way, and if guys in general feel more at ease with you, then the chances are better if one of them likes you he'll make a move.
2007-05-31 15:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are naturally not good looking, that would keep those boys away who look for beauty in a GF. Decide not to look for such guys and also handsome guys.
Remember, what truly attracts is personality - the way you hold yourself, the way you walk, the way you sit, the way you look at another, the way you speak, and so on. Such attraction lasts long. Skin and figure have a limited life and people who want these are not true friends.
Suggest you take regular care to be neatly dressed, in colours and fitting that suit you the most. Keep your hair nicely groomed. If you are fat, keep your weight down to a good level. Be fit and healthy - the health will show in radiance on your face. Most important - keep smiling.
Listen to others well and speak just enough. Also, think deeply as to what qualities you would like in a BF, so that you have a lasting relationship.
Most of all, forget your ugliness and see how you can be pleasant, whenever you look at yourself in the mirror.
I could tell you a lot more but it will be an overdose. I have seen several girls who do not look good but have an endearing persona. Hope you will make yourself such a girl. Go on!!
2007-05-31 15:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by Mahendra S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most importantly, don't limit your opinions by judging others in the way that you feel you are being judged. There's something good about everyone.
Your not as ugly as you say you are... You are only 15... don't worry, even some of the people who you think are "not ugly" don't have boyfriends yet... You have lots of time...
More practical advice: Hangout with groups of people... people can be somewhat superficial until they get to know you. Try going places with more friends at the same time... groups always tend to grow... This way you'll get to meet more people on more than an acquaintance level. Make an honest attempt to fix the things about your appearance that are in your control. Don't cling to the first person that talks to you, they might feel pressured and be driven away.
Lastly, not everyone dated in High School... as you grow up, you'll realize just how different life really can be..
2007-05-31 15:56:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ugly on the inside, too?? That's where it really counts. And having a boyfriend isn't the be all to end all, either. I won't be the first person to tell you you're not as ugly as you think you are. No ... I'm not going to check out your "myspace" thing, either.
I have a girlfriend who USED to give me crap because I found some people to be very attractive that she thought were most definitely not. It wasn't until she got to know them that she saw the same beauty in them that I did. I've always thought that I was unattractive but lo and behold, this seems to be not the case. It's all in the eye of the beholder. Plain and simple. If you have a personality, a good sense of humour and stay true to yourself, someone will find you attractive. I know see myself as CIA (Cute, Intelligent, and Adorable), and sometimes wish the apparent adoration would just go away (I'm pretty old but still seem to catch the eye of the younger buck ... pretty creepy). Please, have a little more faith in yourself.
2007-05-31 15:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by OP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What!? You are not ugly, you are just plain! You need to throw on some make up, get a cool haircut and color and get a little fashion sense and you will look beautiful.
You are the one that is keeping yourself down, it's your attitude, it's not your looks thats keeping you from having a boyfriend, it's the feeling you give off to people - "uh, I'm ugly, I don't deserve a good looking boyfriend, uh I'm so ugly, oh poor me!" When the fact is that you are actually pretty, you just need to do a few things that will accentuate your beauty!
2007-05-31 15:14:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your myspace is set to private dear. But the picture you have for view? If I were 15 I would be all over you. :)
Ugly is purely subjective. Since you have three guys talking to you and you just need ONE to be a boyfriend, I would say you're doing really well !
15 is an awkward age and boys that age are really mean. Don't let this bother you. The boys that don't want to talk to you you don't want anything to do with anyway. Ciao!!
2007-05-31 15:12:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
1) Stop thinking you're ugly. This attitude is disrespectful toward yourself.
2) Stop worrying about finding a bf.
3) You can't really "get" a bf like you're picking them off a store shelf. This attitude is disrespectful toward boys.
4) You're more likely to meet a great potential boyfriend (basically, not a jerk who'll use you) when you have self-respect, respect for others, and are enjoying your life, bf or no bf. This is because more bf-worthy guys are attracted to girls who are confident, socially skilled, and independent.
2007-05-31 15:22:14 · answer #8 · answered by Veekay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are most definately not ugly, you are actually very pretty. Accentuate your beauty by wearing some makeup, maybe some highlights, and nice clothing (that you feel comfortable and genuine in). You know, its the small things that can highlight your beauty, don't cover your face with makeup, just wear a little and you will definately look hot and score that boyfriend you deserve....
but dont go on a quest to look for the perfect guy, he will come to you at an unexpected, yet perfect time....just be happy cuz you are pretty-fuL!
2007-05-31 18:00:07 · answer #9 · answered by jack 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I went to the site and I don't think you're ugly at all.
Either way you should have no trouble finding a BF when the time is right.
I bet someone already likes you at school but is too afraid to talk to you. pay more attention to the shy boys and you'll see for yourself.
2007-05-31 15:10:41 · answer #10 · answered by lowIQ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋