Our school is going to the pool tomorrow and there is a dance later on. I want to get guys to notice me without being a slut. How can I do this?
2007-05-31 14:57:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be confident but not cocky. Don't be afraid to come up to a guy or join in on a conversation. Be interesting, make a joke, don't be afraid to speak up.
This doesn't mean that guys don't like the shy girl, but if you are trying to get noticed in a hurry, being a wall flower isn't going to get anyone's attention in a short amount of time.
Let it all hang out...personality wise. Letting it all hang out in any other way is going to get plenty of attention but most likely not from the people you want it from. Just be yourself, have fun and don't take anything to seriously and you should be allright.
2007-05-31 15:03:02 · answer #1 · answered by reapersidol5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friendly with the guys you like. Treat them the way you want to be treated and be yourself. Guys have their own set of insecurity problems, they have their own unique personalities - odds are they feel the same way you do.
Do something nice for the guy you want to notice you. Guys are kinda slow on the uptake, you might have to do 3 or 4 really nice things for them to get it. Helps if you act helpless around them too. They want be helpful.
2007-05-31 15:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by Fester Frump 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have big boobs where a cute bathing suit =)
if you have nice thighs wear a low cut shorts
if you have pretty eyes wear a bandanna that matches them
if you have designer sunglasses wear them
if you have a nice tan show it off
if you have beautiful hair make sure to play w/ it when they are near you
wink at them
wear a cute dress
take mints with u. bad breath=turn off
perfume
cute flipflops pedicure and manicure
2007-05-31 15:01:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Don't over do it! Just talk to them and go from there. You might find that you ask them out. Guys can be pretty shy sometimes.
2007-05-31 15:01:16 · answer #4 · answered by Mackie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then there is nothing special about going to a pool then. Be as you are anyday.
2007-05-31 15:00:11 · answer #5 · answered by leikevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just have a good aditude and not seem easy guys want a girl that plays hard to get at least i do
2007-05-31 14:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by matthew t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be like those girls. they want guys to like them for the wrong reason. hang out with your friends and be yourself. they don't have any brains so they use their breasts. use your intelligence to express yourself in a cool, intelligent way.
2007-05-31 15:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt with them...it's not all about being a slut
2007-05-31 14:59:51 · answer #8 · answered by ryan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be yourself. Have fun! Best of wishes! ^_^
2007-05-31 15:00:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
new hair.
2007-05-31 15:00:24 · answer #10 · answered by blingding 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋