me and my gf were at this bar, and we were talking to one of our friends, whos a guy, and this prostitute was coming on to him. then he got annoyed and pushed the prostitute back and she fell over. i felt sorry for her (i know shes a prostitute, but shes still a human being!) so i helped her up, despite my friend and my gf being completely unsympathetic to her, then the prostitute was after me a bit. but i made it clear i was with my gf and i wasnt interested in her. then my gf was pretty pissed off with me. seriously, i still think i was in the right. you cant treat people that badly! and my gf is a really jealous person so is a bit biased whenever i help a woman, especially if they have sex with men for money. i wouldnt be angry at her if she was doing the same for some male prostitute. do you think i was in the wrong? i just didnt like seeing a person being treated like sh it. maybe she doesnt trust me enough, and thats the cause of the problem? but ive never cheated on her.
thanks
2007-05-31 14:52:26 · 13 answers · asked by john9999999 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think your girlfriend needs to realise she has a good kind hearted boyfriend!
Not everyone would have helped that prostitute the way you did. I'm sure most of us would have reacted the same way as your gf and friend!
I applaud what you did and i think you gf needs to get over it! Like you said, she is just a person like everyone else and despite her line of work deserves to be treated with some degree of respect. No one knows why she is in that line of work, sometimes they are in situations in which this is the only way they can make money!
I think you're a good guy and your gf has some issues that need addressing, i hope she gets them sorted whatever they may be!
2007-05-31 20:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by MissyKGodsAngel 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you did nothing wrong but if your g/f is so jealous then I think you should stand a bit back when it comes to help other girls, my friend. Because if you don't do so you will end up having problems with your g/f. Some girls are too jealous especially when it comes to other girls. If it was the other way round she would get pissed that you got jealous my friend. Unfortunately that's how a girl's mind work and we have to accept it.
My advise is to show your g/f that you love her and you will never cheat on her and believe me sooner or later she will forget cause that's a woman thing to do.
2007-05-31 19:24:57 · answer #2 · answered by Falcon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that theres anything wrong with helping out someone, next time tell her(the prostitute theres a better way out, but I still dont think that you were wrong, I just think your girlfriend is jealous and may have some insecure issues maybe not from you but from her past relationships, just try and show her that she can trust you, thats very important in a relationship
2007-05-31 15:00:39 · answer #3 · answered by cleanheart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wish all men were like you kind!!! i dont think there was anything wrong with that she need to grow up and to be quite honest if she is the gelous type and gets funny over you helping some one up then you need to get rid. you right every one has feelings and just because of her job role doesnt make her different to any one else. would your gf have done the same if she wasnt a prosititute???
2007-05-31 21:54:25 · answer #4 · answered by Playhuni 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya a dang good guy. Your GF needs to smieer down a bit and realise what's what in this world. it don't hurt to be kind to other human beings. Is your gF an alien form Klingon?
2007-05-31 16:42:39 · answer #5 · answered by Totoru 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Common courtesy is not wrong, regardless of whether others feel the person is "worthy" of courtesy. You made it clear why you acted as you did and that you were not interested in the girl. As far as I'm concerned, you were right, your GF is insecure.
2007-05-31 14:59:37 · answer #6 · answered by peachyone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 05:39:30 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very right but your gf has to be annoyed because its a normal jealousy.
If you helped her out willingly then i dont see any problems.Make your gf understand the whole scenario
2007-05-31 17:48:35 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i totally agree with you. i dont think you did anything wrong. a prostitute has feelings just like everyone else on the planet. your gf just has jelousy issues which she has to get over, and not take it all out on you.
sara♥
2007-05-31 14:57:43 · answer #9 · answered by Sarawrr 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think you're a really cool guy and your girlfriend should be proud of you for doing what's right. You rock, dude!
2007-05-31 14:57:02 · answer #10 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋