well let me tell you a story of my friend (i had no idea what to tell her) she is 17 she has a 2 yr old daughter and the father of her baby is white ( no offence) he left her because her baby turned out looking more mexican then white he is 100% the father he told her he wants nothing to do with her or her 2 mth baby he said the baby was a acident and hit her after that he called the police on her and told them that there was a strange lady at the front door of his house the parents of the guy who may i add is 23 called her and told her there was no wat the baby was his even if they already took a paternaty test said he was the father of her baby 99.9% and he still denies her after that he tolld her he wanted her to leave the state and pretend nothing happened but the only reason he wants her to leave is because he has a new girlfriend and she thinks the baby is not his and calls her all these names and tryed to hit the baby once even ( my friend kicked her a@@ ) help her plz
2007-05-31 14:15:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Immigration
she has a 2 yr old and accepts her and a 2mth old and he can't stand her
2007-05-31 14:21:17 · update #1
If she has a paternity test she should go to family services in her state on behalf of her child and have them go for child support. Legal, illegal, white or purple, deadbeat Dads have few people on their side.
2007-05-31 14:19:55 · answer #1 · answered by DAR 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first off...if he hit her...she should put him behind bars...and the girlfriend too that tried to hit a baby?...tell your friend she is blessed that he wants to leave....even if she went to prove this child was his...he doesnt deserve to be around her or you...does she want her child to be around someone like that? I raised both my babies without the fathers in the picture for similar reasons and was ALOT happier because I kept the dads out...but she needs to make sure he stays out of the picture and yes you can go to welfare which will hunt him down and make him prove he is not the father...at his expense tell them what you told us and they will make him fess up...make a police report on the violence...and she can make him submit to a dna test and then he cant deny and has to pay child support..but at the same time make sure they know he is violent and get restaining orders so he cant try to get revenge....then tell her to get into a local group for single moms and get the help she needs for herself and her babies...and dont pick any more men..it seems her picker is broke...instead focus on getting her life together with her children and thank God a jerk like him is gone out of the picture! hope it helps
2007-05-31 21:42:51 · answer #2 · answered by rowdysunsetart 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a story Maury Povich would love to air on his show. Go to the child support enforcement office nearest you,file charges.They will bring his a$$ in and do a DNA test free of charge.Oh yeah,and I forgot to mention,he can go to jail for trying to be like R Kelly.
2007-05-31 21:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that he used her for sex, got her pregnant and didn't ever have any intention of having a long term relationship with a Mexican. That's what I think.
And I pity everyone involved, but most of all ... the children.
My bet is that he felt used, she felt used, and on some level--they are both right.
But the bottom line also is--the are both dead wrong.
2007-05-31 21:40:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to file for Child Support and she has a test to prove it. She will win. In regards to that loser, she needs to leave him alone and just accept his checks. Her baby deserves better and so does your friend.
2007-05-31 21:33:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What can I say, not having sex at 15 - or having an abortion when she found out she was pregnant - might have been a good idea. Now she's stuck with a kid and a deadbeat dad. It'd be heart-wrenching if it wasn't so commonplace.
2007-05-31 21:22:32 · answer #6 · answered by B.Kevorkian 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Charge him with rape (of a 17-year-old). Take him to the country and have her sue for child support!
2007-05-31 22:48:35 · answer #7 · answered by Psi Chi member 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Reality will hit home when they garnish his wages. She needs to take action to make sure he never is in the baby's life. She sure knows how to pick 'em.
2007-05-31 21:27:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
So the guy's a jerk, she should choose better next time. What's this got to do with immigration? Nada!
2007-05-31 21:34:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect yourselves!
Jeeeez!
2007-05-31 21:20:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋